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Something you should know. Fascinating intel. The world's top experts and practical advice you can use in your life today. Something you should know with Mike Karothers.

Hi, welcome to something you should know. You know, nothing puts a damper on a car trip. Then when somebody says, I don't feel good. I'm going to throw up. I don't feel good at all.

If anyone in your family is prone to car sickness, you've probably heard all the home remedies that are supposed to ease the symptoms.

And there's a new one you should probably be aware of. They have these eyeglasses that supposedly prevent motion sickness. Now, I've never tried them because I typically don't get car sick, but recently readers digest tested them out.

And if you haven't seen them, they look a little weird. They're kind of these big, googly eyed glasses that contain two holes to look through in the front. And then there's also two holes to the side of each eye. The holes at the side protect the wearer's peripheral vision from becoming sensitive to motion, which is often what brings on that dizzy sick feeling.

But the glasses don't contain lenses instead they use a leveling liquid to synchronize eyes as they move. Do they work? Well, the readers digest tester said they did and they have a lot of five star ratings and reviews on Amazon.

And since they only cost about $24, it might be worth giving them a try. By the way, they're not an advertiser. We're not being paid to say this. It's just that I know how car sickness can ruin a trip. So I figured that's something you should know.

Here's a term you may not have heard before toxic individualism. It refers to the idea that people in our culture have become more focused on themselves as in it's all about me. And this has created a big problem for relationships. Because how can you be in a relationship, which is all about us when your focus is all about you?

This is according to Terrence real. He's an internationally recognized family therapist speaker and author who's written some incredibly successful books on relationships, including I don't want to talk about it and the new rules of marriage.

His latest book is called Us, getting past you and me to build a more loving relationship, which has already become a big bestseller in just a few weeks. Hey Terrence, welcome.

Well, thank you. It's a joy to be here. So explain your view of relationships as it relates to that term that you have coined toxic individualism.

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