Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin Xo podcast. I'm your host Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

Welcome back to the podcast, Shaligators. Well, this week's episode is piggybacking off a YouTube

video I recently did. And the video was actually about age differences in dating because

Young Gravy and Addison Ray's mother, I mean, like the who's who of nobody cares, are together or whatever. They were at the VMAs together. But within that video, I talked about the VMAs in the context of Lizzo, who, as we know, is big. She's fat. There's no other way to say it. She's not husky. She's not big-boned. She's fat. She's actually morbidly obese.

And in the video, I talked and I asked you guys, you know, when we hear women being like,

yes, I love it, like Slay, you're doing it. Is that true support or is that actually

fakeness because this person is either no longer a threat to you?

So it's like, yeah, keep gaining weight.

Like the bigger you get, the one less threat is out there against me as a woman for the

sexual resources we want, which are men.

And do we see this on kind of like our own individual level? Do we have people

in our lives who are yay saying us when really, maybe they should be telling us the truth?

Oh my God, that dress, no, it's not too short or slutty. Absolutely. Wear it to his grandmother's

funeral. Like, absolutely. Like you do you. We know

people like this. They might be in the periphery. They might be inside our own house.

So I wanted to break this down a little bit more because you guys were asking in the

comment section of that video, can you do like a deeper dive into the concept of weeding out fake friends and how to spot

people like this? So we're going to get into that. But before we do, I want to remind you that we

have our Alpha Academy sexy session tutorials. They have just wrapped up. And if you miss them,

you can catch them all on the chalantirage.

Now, the chalantirage is our kind of cozy little online community.

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