How to want to F*ck Your Husband with Vanessa Marin
LadyGang
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4.6 • 11.5K Ratings
🗓️ 10 March 2026
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Why does the flirting stop after marriage? Why does it feel like men always want it more (or… do they)? Why does sex start to feel like climbing Mount Everest? Licensed psychotherapist and sex therapist Vanessa Marin (host of Pillow Talks) joins LadyGang for a very honest conversation about sex in long-term relationships. The ladies get real about mismatched libidos, the pressure of infrequent sex, lingerie fatigue, and the emotional meaning behind “I want to feel close to you.” Vanessa breaks down the truth about desire in long-term love and shares practical tools to rebuild intimacy — including her 60-second “GET Intimate” formula (Gratitude, Eye Contact, Touch) and why quickies might actually save your sex life.
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| 0:00.0 | Lady gang, I wanted to say, I am so thankful for all your support of my new book, the FM |
| 0:06.0 | theory self-help for people who are done being the bigger person. It is on sale right now at |
| 0:10.8 | F thembook.com. I wanted to explain something about the publishing world that pre-orders really matter. |
| 0:17.1 | I literally have three weeks to get some pre-orders on this book. And that's how the publisher goes out to Target and Walmart and Barnes & Noble and all your indie booksellers. And they basically say, hey, there's a little heat on this book. Would you buy 10 for your Barnes & Noble at the Grove? Would you buy 10 for your indie? It's crazy because the book is published in November, but the orders over the next few weeks really, really matter. If you're planning on supporting me and you're planning on getting the book, if you could do it now sooner than later, I would appreciate it so much. F thembook.com. And I offered all these pre-order bonuses. And one of them is to get into the K-type collective where I'm literally going to be your personal coach all year long leading up into the book launch for free. Every Wednesday you're going to get homework for me. It could be social media. It could be money. It could be emotional. And then on Sunday, I'm going to review it and do all of the work and tell you what I think and give you my personalized feedback. And we're going to have once monthly accountability meetings as well on Zoom so we can all chat. I'm really excited about |
| 1:11.2 | this new era. Lady Gang isn't going anywhere, but thank you for your support. FMbook.com. |
| 1:17.5 | Well, what is this? Welcome to the Lady Gang. That's amazing. Say that again. The Lady Gang. |
| 1:23.8 | Things are about to change around here. Each week we catch up with Hollywood's hottest girl |
| 1:29.0 | posse. Kilty Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jack Vannick. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to Lady Gang. I'm |
| 1:36.8 | Becca Tobin here with Jack Vanek and Kelty Night. Hello. Hello. Hi guys. How's it going? I'm very excited about this episode because I need it. |
| 1:48.2 | And so to so many other people because I recently realized that no one is having sex with |
| 1:54.7 | their husbands. |
| 1:58.4 | A new realization. I was literally at this party and we were all talking about it. |
| 2:03.3 | And then this girl who's coming on, Vanessa, was like, oh, this is what I do. |
| 2:07.1 | This is my podcast is about. |
| 2:08.5 | And I was like, we need you because it's just hard. |
| 2:12.5 | And it's like, yeah, we're going to talk about it. |
| 2:15.5 | Anyway. |
| 2:16.2 | Well, I mean, I'll just say it. |
| 2:17.4 | Like, for a while I did this stupid thing when I would be out at like parties or socializing where I'd have like a few cocktails. And then that was like my thing that I always talked about is like, do you want to fuck your husband? Like, and you know how I am. I exaggerate. I really like go in, you know, it's very theatrical. |
| 2:36.6 | sex in 25 years. And I'm like, let me f*** a stranger. Like, I really took it. I took the bit and I went too |
| 2:42.4 | far, you know, like a bridge too far as I always do. And Zach will literally look at me and be like, |
| 2:47.7 | could you not? Like, it's just, could you not? We had sex this morning. Like, we were in the shower |
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