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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

How to Uncover What's Actually Holding You Back | Gary John Bishop on Impact Theory

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2020

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Check out our Sponsors Pique Tea: Visit piquetea.com/impact and get 5% off teas with code IMPACT Better Help: Get 10% off your first month at https://betterhelp.com/impacttheory Audible: Start listening with a 30-day free trial, one free audiobook and access to the Plus Catalog. Visit audible.com/IMPACT or text IMPACT to 500-500 HelloFresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/80impact and use code 80impact to get $80 off including free shipping! Your reality is not what you think it is. Everyday, you move through and see the experiences of life with a filter. This filter? It’s your own perspective. Now is the time for you to recognize and become self-aware of this perspective, rid yourself of it, and actually begin to change your life for good. On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by New York Times Bestselling Author, speaker, and urban philosopher Gary Bishop to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to finally wake up to the reality you’ve fabricated for yourself, break the chains of your perspective which can hold you back, and start to walk on a path towards the person, life, and reality you want to live. They discuss how we each create our own reality from our experiences, how to become self-aware so that you can recognize patterns in your life, why we create false narratives for ourselves, how to become reborn and renewed into a new person, why you shouldn’t require others to change for you, and how to deal with the challenging fundamentals of life such as success, grief, and love. SHOW NOTES: Reality | Gary reveals how we create our own reality and experiences. [0:18] Self-Awareness | Gary shares how to be truly aware of and connected to yourself. [2:55] Realizations | Gary shares his own story and journey to becoming self-aware. [5:33] Narrative | Gary reveals how to break away from the narrative you built for yourself. [9:09] Reborn | Gary reveals how to be in control and re-craft your perspective. [12:10] Renew | Gary shares an incredible story of renewing his relationship with his mother. [16:47] Change | Gary reveals why you have to live without requiring others to change. [23:01] Creation | Gary discusses why who you are isn’t just an accident, it’s a creation. [25:10] Self-Help | Gary shares his journey of writing in a way that actually helps others. [28:43] Pursuit | Gary peels back the curtain on how our life’s experiences [35:06] Fundamentals | Gary reveals the fundamentals of life that we get lost and trapped in. [39:04] Success | Gary reveals how the false idea of success is fed to us our whole lives. [42:00] Love | Gary reveals how the only type of real love is unconditional love. [44:41] Connect | Gary shares how you can learn more and continue to hear from him. [52:37] QUOTES: “Your perspective is in everything you hear, everything you see, everything you say, everything you experience, every feeling, every emotion, you know, all of it. That’s your perspective and it’s hard to see it because you’re in it. So you can’t really witness it.” [7:28] “I think what you’re witnessing is this kind of bankruptcy of your persona. Like, who’ve you’ve come to know yourself as no longer works, right? And it’s the same shit and no matter how hard you shake that tree, you’re only ever getting one apple.” [27:28] “…and part of being a loving human being is, what’s also on the table, is something called disappointment.” [48:13] FOLLOW GARY: Website: garyjohnbishop.com Podcast: garyjohnbishop.com/unfucknation Twitter: twitter.com/GaryJohnBishop Facebook: facebook.com/OneInSevenBillion Instagram: instagram.com/garyjohnbishop YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCFOYP5qoi5uAiwnpBYXGLiw

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0:00.0

What is up my friend Tom Billio here and I have a big question to ask you how would you rate your level of personal discipline on a scale of 1 to 10 if your answer is anything less than a 10 I've got something cool for you

0:10.6

and let me tell you right now discipline by its very nature means compelling yourself to do difficult things that are stressful

0:17.2

boring which is what kills most people are possibly scary or even painful now here is the thing achieving huge goals and stretching to reach your potential requires you to do those challenging stressful things

0:29.2

and to stick with them even when it gets boring and it will get boring building your levels of personal discipline is not easy but let me tell you it pays off

0:37.0

in fact I will tell you you're never going to achieve anything meaningful unless you develop discipline right I've just released a class from impact theory university called how to build ironclad discipline that teaches you the process of building yourself up in this area so that you can push yourself to do the hard things that greatness is going to require of you right click the link on the screen register for this class right now and let's get to

0:59.1

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1:37.2

everybody welcome to another episode of impact theory I am here today with Gary Bishop Gary welcome to the show man

1:44.4

awesome thanks for having me dude I'm excited I love the way that you think about the world I love this sort of brush aggression that you come at things with the sort of no bullshit approach

1:55.9

so I'm very excited to dive into that now you you have several books the most recent being about amazing fucking wisdom living a life

2:05.9

wise life if you will one thing you said that really blew me away is this notion that we are both the the agent in the matrix and the rebels as you call it or you know

2:19.3

neotrinity and the group what do you mean by that to what extent do you see that we're sort of creating our own reality and how do we develop the wisdom to navigate that well

2:29.3

yeah so there's a there's a lot there's a lot about that that we did seem so unreal to us when you think I create more reality okay

2:40.3

because you know you reach out you touch the table right it's not like you're imagining some holograph or something right but but you are

2:49.3

you are creating your own experience of being alive and your actions are common very much common from your experience

2:56.3

so when I talked about your both the matrix and your the rebels all of us all human beings are constantly setting up the game

3:06.3

and set up the game subconsciously so you're set up the game relationship she's set up the game of finance you just set up the game your

3:13.3

body or so you're kind of following predictable pathways and and but you're also struggling with some of these things

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