If you're nervous and unsure, you're lacking confidence, you tend not to look people in the eye

and you kind of like look around because you don't want to be revealed. Like, you know, you don't want someone to figure out that you're not really good at this. And so looking people, it's like, I don't know, it's kind of, it makes you very vulnerable looking somebody directly in the eye. And so, you know, it's natural for people who are less confident to not want to look at the eye.

Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help successful women attract high-value men,

date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you dive into the male mind and provide raw insights found nowhere else. Back by science, psychology,

and our own personal experiences. Your host today are myself, Adam Lodulche, professional dating

coach and founder of Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist,

professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies. Please share with a friend and enjoy.

Oh, do we have a good title for all of you beautiful ladies today?

How to turn a guy on instantly with your eyes.

And right before we started this podcast, I asked Gary, a really dorky question that he dorkly

knew the answer to, which was, are eyes even an organ?

And what did I learn just now?

No.

Well, they're part of the brain technically, right?

It's actually part of the brain that you can actually see from the outside because

the eyes are directly connected to the brain.

It's all part of the same system.

Nerd alert.

He learned that when he was getting his PhD.

Somewhere along the way.

It's either that, it's an intro, psych, textbook thing.

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