How to Tell If Someone Is Sexually Attracted to You

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 19 May 2026

⏱️ 52 minutes

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In this live episode of Sex With Emily recorded on April 16, 2026, I answer your biggest questions about sex, attraction, intimacy, libido, dating, communication, and the orgasm gap. In this livestream, we talk about what actually helps women orgasm, why slowing down and communication matter so much in relationships, how medications can impact libido, signs someone is sexually attracted to you, dating in today’s world, oral sex tips, threesome boundaries, and so much more. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! This episode is sponsored by Biologica: Head to https://biologica.com/SEXWITHEMILY to get started and get up to 32% off your first subscription order today! Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you. Chapters: 0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily 1:28 Understanding the Orgasm Gap 2:35 The Importance of Clitoral Stimulation 4:10 Communication is Lubrication 5:27 Why Slowing Down Improves Sex 7:49 Best Toys & Recommendations 9:39 Why Rushing Can Hurt Intimacy 10:22 How to Slow Down & Stay Present During Sex 14:42 Navigating Boundaries in Threesomes 18:51 Sensitivity & Trouble Finishing 22:55 Talking About Anal & Oral Sex 25:19 When Is the Right Time to Have Sex While Dating? 28:28 Signs Someone Is Sexually Attracted to You 32:41 Medications That Affect Libido & Arousal 37:13 What Is Sexomnia? 38:14 The “Kivin Method” 42:30 Feeling Stuck in a Dating Desert 45:38 Why Taking Classes Can Change Your Dating Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Okay, so if you've been listening to this show for a while, you know I'm not about random
0:03.2	sex toys or gimmicks. I'm about tools that actually support your pleasure, your communication, and your connection. Well, that's exactly why we created the shop, Sex with Emily's Store. Everything in there is curated by me and my team, and these are products I trust, I recommend to clients, and what tell my friends about. I do tell my friends about. It's what I talk about
0:20.9	all the time. Whether you're exploring solo pleasure, looking to reconnect with a partner,
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0:43.4	shouldn't be confusing. It should feel empowering. You can check it out at shop.sexwithemly.com
0:49.0	and find something that supports where you are right now or just click the link in the show notes.
0:53.6	Also, keep an eye out for
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1:11.7	delivered discreetly to your home with ongoing support whenever you need it. You're not alone in this.
1:17.3	Visit medexpress.co.com.uk slash podcast to learn more.
1:21.0	Traditionally for women to orgasm has nothing to do with your penis. No matter how wonderful
1:26.5	your penis is, how active it is, how erect it is, we're still not going to orgasm that way. There's a lot of medications, you guys, that impact our libido. It can impact our arousal getting turned on and our ability to orgasm. So when people say they have sexual side effects, those are typically the side effects that you're going to see. This is one of the most common questions I get my partner to blank.
1:46.0	You're not going to get your partner to do anything with that attitude.
1:49.0	You're really not.
1:50.0	How can we tell if someone is sexually attracted to us?
1:52.0	That is such a great question.
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