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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

How to Talk to Anyone on Edge Without Getting Pulled In

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Civility Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education

55.8K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

In this Ask Me Anything episode, I’m answering your real questions—from how to handle a partner who shuts down after work, to what it actually takes to be a better listener, to what to do when someone lies to your face even after you show proof. These are everyday moments that trip a lot of us up, and I’m sharing the exact tools I use in my own life to stay calm, clear, and in control. Want your question answered next time? Join the newsletter! Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTok Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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slash setup hey everybody welcome to a special episode and ask me anything podcast episode

0:35.1

where we're going to go over some questions that were asked in response to my

0:38.4

newsletter that I send out every week, questions about some romantic relationship stuff, how to be a

0:44.0

better listener, and how to deal with liars. I'm ready to get right into it. You ready? Welcome to the

0:50.2

Jefferson Fisher podcast, where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation, the one that changes everything. I'm going to ask you to, please, if you would, find the

0:59.2

subscribe or like or heart wherever you're listening on whatever platform you're listening to.

1:04.1

I'm going to ask you to click it because I'm giving you a promise, and that promise is to make

1:08.1

you a better communicator. For however long you listen to my podcast, whether it's just a few episodes, if you make this part of your daily routine, you will be a better communicator. And that's my promise to you. This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. I love Cozy Earth. One thing that I got in the other day that I received was a bath sheet from

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1:55.3

I have a newsletter, in case you didn't know, where I send out a weekly communication tip right into your inbox totally totally for free. And in response, every once in a while, in fact, daily, I will get

2:04.9

questions from people. I've pulled some of these that I wanted to talk with you about. They're

2:10.2

awesome people that have awesome questions. I want to get right to them. This first one is Mac

2:16.0

from Michigan. Here's Mac's question. My spouse

2:20.4

carries a lot of stress from work when he's very stressed out. Me asking a question can trigger a

2:26.1

reactionary response. All I can say is, I'm just asking a question, and then I shut down. How can

2:31.9

I respond better? Mac, I understand because as soon as I saw

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