On this episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by hypnotherapist, founder of rapid transformational therapy, speaker, and bestselling author Marisa Peer to discuss such matters and more as they explore ways to stop telling yourself destructive lies and begin speaking to yourself in a positive and uplifting way that informs your thoughts and behaviors to change for the better. They discuss why the thoughts you create dictate your emotions and behaviors, the power of connecting your mind and body, why you need to confront your thoughts head on and discover the root cause of them, why you have to begin telling yourself positive lies, why creating stories in your head is dangerous, how our thoughts influence our relationships, what RTT is and the power it has, how childhood trauma and lack of our needs being met influences us as adults, and why it’s okay to mess up time and time again. [Original air date: 12-1-20]. SHOW NOTES: Intro | Lisa introduces and welcomes today’s guest, Marisa Peer. [1:53] Feelings | Marisa discusses why your thoughts dictate and influence your feelings. [2:59] Thought Pattern | Marisa reveals how to disrupt your thought negative patterns. [4:43] Body Connection | Marisa discusses the power of connecting your thoughts to your body. [6:07] Ask Yourself | Marisa reveals why you need to question your beliefs and their origins. [11:13] Needs | Marisa shares the needs of children and what happens if they’re not met. [13:10] It Has to be You | Marisa shares why the thoughts you tell yourself must come from you. [15:38] Relationships | Marisa reveals why you should never threaten someone as a game. [18:55] Lying to Yourself | Marisa discusses the story you create for yourself in your head. [22:40] What Lies Beneath | Marisa shares how to address the root cause of destructive habits. [26:21] RTT | Marisa reveals how she treats other’s emotional pain fast and permanently. [28:54] Role, Function, Purpose | Marisa discusses how your issues have a job and function. [33:33] Children | Marisa discusses why you have to be very careful of what you say to kids. [37:04] Inner Child | Marisa discusses how our problems can be traced back to childhood. [40:23] Parenting | Marisa shares how you should approach parenting or treating children. [42:31] FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh YouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH SPONSORS: Go over right now and sign up for just one dollar a month with your trial period at impacttheory.co/woishopifypodJuly24 Go to impacttheory.co/woikasadrinospodJuly24 and enter code LISA for 25% off your whole order  Go to impacttheory.co/woiTABUpod and use code LISA15 to save 15% off your order ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE"  (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: https://bit.ly/radcon ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices