The way to overcome that hurdle is to look at the process and say, okay, I understand that if I do this regularly and enough, that the world will move itself to meet me.

Same with my daughter. The world moved itself to say, oh, you are now self-possessed. We will treat you as such.

Yeah.

Or you are now loving yourself. So we're going to surround you with people who love you.

The world will create something for you that supports your truth.

Welcome back to the art of accomplishment, where we explore living the life you want with enjoyment and ease.

Today we're going to talk about how to stop seeking the approval of others and speak your truth.

We're going to talk about the three things that prevent people from speaking their truth.

We're going to talk about doubt.

We're going to talk about the difference between intuition and patterning or conditioning. And we're going to offer

some tips and practices to help you embody speaking your truth and letting go of the need for

approval from others.

Hi, Joe. Hey, Brett.

Something that's been popping up in the world around us is the question,

how do we stop seeking approval and follow what's true for us?

You know, it's interesting because I think that the question itself,

the answer is reversed.

Let me explain what I mean.

So my daughters, both of them went through this at some point. They're in their teenage years,

and there's exclusion, and there's who likes who, and did you get invited to the party, and blah, blah, blah, blah.

And at some point, both of my daughters realize that this is like a really painful experience. Trying to make sure that people like you and trying to make sure that you're doing the right thing and et cetera, et cetera, is hard.

And so recently my youngest came to me to talk to me about this and what to do.

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