Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. My name is Amber, and today is a very special episode because we have a listener of the podcast who came on the show and shared with us her very

personal but universal dating challenge, which involves overthinking, dating anxiety, and

doubting yourself when you really like somebody. So I'm really grateful that she shared so

openly because I know as you're listening to it, you're just going to be listening to your own thoughts because we've all been there.

Also, at the end of our call, she asked me, what is the best dating advice you ever received? So if you want to know what the best dating advice that I ever received was, stick around to the end.

So if you are also interested in coming on the podcast and having an hour coaching session with me

and allowing me to record it so other people can benefit from it, reach out to me on Instagram.

My name on Instagram is Amber Grubinman, and I'm also going to write that in the show notes.

And in the show notes, you'll be able to find my free guide copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky.

So we are talking about overthinking things in this episode, but there's no need for those situations, at least,

because I already wrote the answers, and they're in a PDF for you. And also, one more thing,

thank you for listening because I officially hit over a thousand weekly listeners on this

podcast, which was a huge goal for me.

So I'm really grateful that you're all tuning in and I'm happy that you're here.

And thank you.

All right.

Let's get into it.

I think there's always been a bit of a dynamic of me always wondering what he wants, what he's thinking, if I'm enough, am I doing enough, am I doing too much?

And especially after I said that, I think that kind of went haywire of just always wondering what he wants and trying to be what he wants.

And I think that's not, I know that's not healthy.

If I heard my friend doing that, I would tell her that, you know, she needs to have more self-respect or, you know, self-love or something along those lines.

So it's a dynamic that I do worry about.

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