5 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 26 June 2025
⏱️ 93 minutes
🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS
🧾️ Download transcript
Ever feel like you’re stuck in emotional quicksand—reacting instead of responding, repeating old patterns, and people-pleasing your way to burnout? This episode is your lifeline.
Lo sits down with Michelle Chalfant, therapist, author, and creator of The Adult Chair model, to talk about the psychology behind our emotional survival strategies—why we do what we do, and how to finally stop doing the things that keep us small, anxious, or stuck. From inner child healing to boundary setting, this conversation is a therapy session, a masterclass, and a wake-up call all rolled into one.
If you’re ready to leave behind guilt, perfectionism, or that never-ending need to prove yourself, this one’s for you. Let’s unpack the behaviors that helped us survive—and find the ones that will help us thrive.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:15.5 | Hello, bienvenito. |
| 0:17.2 | Welcome one and all to a brand spanking new episode, fresh out the kitchen. We've been cooking in la Cucina, a delicious. Welcome. I'm your flaming hot and spicy, seasonally depressed, white wine drinking, tuck your finger licking, ice coffee sipping, mushroom microdosing, hot mess of a host, Lorenzovon, and I am so happy to be here with you today. |
| 0:51.4 | There is no place I'd rather be than right here in this moment |
| 0:54.6 | in our cult, our safe space, our coven. I hope you're having a beautiful day and a great |
| 1:00.4 | week so far and you're feeling good, but if you are struggling right now with your mental health, |
| 1:04.9 | if you're feeling like shit, if you're feeling depleted, exhausted, stressed out, anxious, |
| 1:10.5 | if you're dealing with a drama in your life right now and you need to escape, you have come to the right place, baby. |
| 1:16.5 | We're about to turn that frown upside down. We got a great show in store for you today, especially if you are struggling with your mental health. |
| 1:24.9 | If you are looking to escape for about an hour and a half, this is the place to do it because I guarantee you're going to get a lot from this conversation. |
| 1:31.8 | It is so uplifting. It is so empowering. It's inspiring. I had the conversation with this guest, |
| 1:38.1 | went back, re-listened to it again after reading her book, and I had so many takeaways from it. |
| 1:42.9 | So I can't wait for you to listen to this episode. Before we get into the conversation this week, I want to know what your mental health score is. On a scale of one to 10, what's your mental health score this week? One being bottom of the barrel, 5150 your ass, a 10 would be euphoric bliss. Life is a dream, peaches and cream. |
| 2:02.4 | Your toes are in the sand. |
| 2:04.4 | You're sipping a freaking pina colada. |
| 2:06.9 | A 10 is feeling like you're on top of the world. |
| 2:10.5 | Where are you on that low life scale right now? |
| 2:16.3 | For me personally, I'm going to rate my mental health a solid 7.5 out of 10. |
| 2:20.8 | I'm feeling pretty good. Does anyone else feel like the month of June just flew by and I can't believe we're already heading into July? I blinked and realized, |
| 2:26.7 | oh shit, it's June 26th. My birthday is coming up in just a few days. My birthday is June 30th. It |
| 2:33.0 | falls on a Monday this year. |
| 2:34.8 | Shout out to all of my fellow cancer crabs. My emotional, sensitive, deeply empathetic, nurturing, |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Podcast Nation, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Podcast Nation and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.