How To Stop Feeling Guilty Doing Things You Actually Enjoy
Embrace Your Real
Julie Ledbetter
5.0 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 6 April 2026
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
Hey hey beautiful human! One question for you: When did enjoying something become something I need permission for? When did hobbies turn into something that needs to be productive? When did doing things just because they make me happy become frivolous or selfish?
Women who can't watch a show without folding laundry at the same time. Women who've turned every hobby into a side hustle because they can't justify doing something unless it's "productive." Women who can't spend an hour on a creative project without feeling like they're being selfish.
So today, we're talking about why you feel guilty doing things you actually enjoy - and more importantly, how to stop.
What I discuss:
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The Productivity Guilt Epidemic
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Why Joy Feels Selfish (Even When You're Depleted)
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The Permission to Do Things Just Because They Make You Happy
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How to Reclaim Hobbies Without Justifying Them
If you loved this episode, I think you'll really love Episode 523: Choosing Yourself: What It Really Means. I'll leave a link in the show notes.
If you want more from me, be sure to check out…
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Follow me on Instagram: @juliealedbetter | @embraceyourreal | @movementwithjulie
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Movement With Julie | App: https://sale.movementwithjulie.com/
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Macro Counting Made Simple Online Academy: https://www.macrocountingmadesimple.com/
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Website: www.juliealedbetter.com
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey there, beautiful human. You're listening to Embrace Your Real with me, Julie Ledbetter, |
| 0:05.4 | a podcast where I empower you to just be you. With each episode, I dish you a dose of real talk |
| 0:11.4 | and actionable advice for building your confidence, honoring your body, and unconditionally loving |
| 0:16.6 | your authentic self. Stay tuned if you're ready to embrace your real. Let's get and let's go. |
| 0:28.4 | Hello and welcome back to another episode on the Embrace Real podcast. My name is Julie |
| 0:33.4 | Ledbetter. I'm so excited that you are here with me today. So I was sitting on the couch last |
| 0:37.3 | weekend, just reading a book, just reading nothing productive, no workout scheduled, |
| 0:41.4 | no earning it. And I just felt this wave of guilt wash over me. Like I should be doing something |
| 0:47.4 | more useful with my time. Like I was just wasting the day. Like I needed to justify what I was |
| 0:51.5 | allowing myself to do, sit there and just enjoy something. |
| 0:54.5 | And I had to stop and ask myself, like, when did enjoying something become something that I need |
| 0:59.6 | permission for? Like, when did hobbies turn into something that need to be productive? And when |
| 1:04.1 | did doing things just because they make me happy become, like, frivolous or selfish? |
| 1:09.3 | I know I'm not alone with this because I talk to women every |
| 1:11.5 | single day who feel the exact same way. Women who can't watch a show without folding laundry at the |
| 1:16.0 | same time, women who've turned every hobby into a side hustle because they just can't justify |
| 1:20.4 | doing something unless it's productive. Women who can't spend an hour on a creative project without |
| 1:25.4 | feeling like they're being selfish. And so today, |
| 1:27.8 | we're talking about why you feel guilty doing the things that you actually enjoy and more importantly, |
| 1:33.4 | like how to stop that. Before we dive in, though, I want to share this review. She gave a five-star |
| 1:37.8 | review and said, stop everything you're doing and listen. This is a nice dose of reality and |
| 1:42.8 | motivation. I've been doing your Moot Julie app for |
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