I woke up with a vengeance I woke up realizing that I am who I am and I'm not going to change for anyone any man anybody

Doesn't matter who it is. I'm standing in my fucking power this fall.

It's Freedom Fall, I don't care if that's cheesy, I don't care if you're cringing at me.

I realized over the last week that I will never sacrifice who I am or any part of who I am for anyone,

especially when it comes to my romantic relationships and dating and being in the world of social media. I used to

care so much what people think and I'm done. I'm done with caring about if people

are judging me. I'm done with caring about people's

opinions or perceptions of me. I'm just ready to skyrocket into an entirely new era

of my life. I'm 31. I don't have time for bullshit anymore. I don't have time for

games and dating. I don't have time for someone to be unsure about me, confused, not

knowing what they want, throwing me to the side like an option I am in my revenge era but I don't

know if it's revenge but more just like I don't give a fuck anymore I'm not

being nice I'm done being nice. I'm done being nice and sweet and empathetic towards people

who treat me badly. On today's episode I'm going to give you guys a pep talk of

why it's so important to really honor who you are when it comes

to your relationships in any aspect of your life. It doesn't matter if you're talking about

in an environment where you're working or an environment where you're dating or an environment

where you're with your friends, you need to stand your ground and be your own best advocate

and not give a fuck what anyone thinks because honestly one life is short two you really have nothing to lose anymore because you're going to regret it in the long run because you're going to end up getting run over walked all over you're going to feel taken advantage of you're going to end up getting run over, walked all over, you're going to feel

taken advantage of, you're going to feel vulnerable, you're going to feel weak, and you're going to have the life and power

sucked out of you. And that's what recently happened to me with the situation I was in

when I was in London. I was dating someone. We were going back and forth

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