Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're

going to be talking about making space for your person. Before we get into that, I want to let you know about my free guide

called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky. The link for that is going

to be in the show notes. In addition to that, if you would like to do a free little 15-minute

call with me, I do laser coaching sessions and all you have to do is go to the

link in my Instagram bio to sign up for one of those and you can literally just ask me any dating

or confidence question and I do my best to answer it within the time frame. Lastly, I am so excited

because the group coaching program that's starting September

1st is almost full already. So if you want to work together to create the results that you want

in dating, definitely schedule a consult ASAP. And the link for scheduling that consult is in the show notes as well.

All righty.

So today I want to talk about creating space for the person that you want.

So this is a really amazing tool and it's deceptively simple like most of the coaching tools that I use.

And yet, it yields amazing results for everybody that implements it.

So continuing with the plant metaphor that you're so familiar with if you've been listening to this

podcast when we are dating we are planting these little seeds with different people and every

little seed that you plant is like a new dating opportunity and you have one bucket of water per day. And then you get to make the

decision of which little seeds you want to give some water to and which ones you don't want to

give some water to. And we want our decision making process around that to be informed by the fact that you have a

limited amount of water in your bucket.

So more practically speaking, the way that I see this with clients is that a lot of women

are entertaining connections with men that are not really sprouting. So that one guy

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