We are always doing that little extra step, that little extra something where we show up and then we gain something because we showed up as opposed to anyone else who might not push through and take that extra step.

Welcome everybody to the Chris Harder Show where we are making you unapologetic about your pursuit of success.

Knowing that when good people like you make good money they can then do great things.

My name is Chris Harder and several times per week I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes and every single tool trick and skill set you need to grow your business, grow your money mindset and to grow your wealth to levels that you have never reached before.

I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've got the experience, the connections and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful and I'm lifting the curtain to reveal it all to you in an effort to help put you in a position of abundance so great that you can then be as generous as possible.

So let's lock arms and let's get started.

And we're back with another episode of he said she said by the way what's up babe you are in Miami and I'm a new pork beach.

Yes, if you guys can't tell by the audio quality.

I'm actually on my phone in my hotel room and we are doing our he said she said and I am here for a products mastermind.

Now I've been to a lot of masterminds before but never specifically for selling products whether it is online or retail and I don't know anyone here.

I know one person but she is going to be busy learning about her own business but for the most part I do not know a soul here and that brings us to our topic today Chris what are we talking about.

Mastering resistance and what you just described as an introverts nightmare I'm like an extroverted introvert so I'm at the core I'm an introvert and social interactions are awkward for me familiar.

Accurate interactions great social ones I don't know why they're so painful and they create so much resistance so the idea of going like that's massive resistance.

Oh yeah you know honestly you and I have been on a few separate like our schedules have been taking us to different places you've been traveling without me and we are not number one we're not used to that we are usually together all the time and we prefer it that way.

And there's resistance right there kind of like doing something without you I'm like I'd rather be doing it with you and then to constantly be doing different things new things I've been in different cities speaking on different stages in rooms where I don't know a lot of people and there has been so much resistance in my life lately not to mention even my work life has been really really challenging like I am at max discomfort increase you know this but even my body broke out in like this.

Crazy stress rash that's been here for like two weeks like covered my torso and neck and back in this stress rash breakout.

Because I'm in so much resistance and we wanted to bring this up because I think people from the outside looking in think that it must just be easy for us or these opportunities are like you know the most exciting best thing to ever happen and yes they are and I would never wish them away.

But there's actually been moments where I found I was wishing them away and had to reframe so that's that's what we want to chat about today is number one that you know if you're feeling resistance in one area good that's how you know you're growing that's how you actually reach fulfillment and long term happiness because I know that if I'm not hitting resistance like this that I'm actually not going to be happy in the long run but also how are you dealing with it.

It was really interesting that you have resistance even for all the good things yes you want to do so I had resistance remember I'm Sunday night I was debating like oh do I really feel like going to the the new port home which is our favorite home of all the places to be right.

For context wearing Arizona so Monday Lori was even a Miami and I was supposed to be leaving the new port with with bananas our dog and that whole night I'm like no I'm going to cancel I'm just going to stay here it's easier stay here.

And the problem was I kept looking at what was easier not what would make me happier and we do that so much in life for everything we do it for business.

Oh what's going to feel easier instead of what decision will make me happier in the long run or we do it with our bodies right skipping workouts or eating bad food what's going to seem easier right now instead of what's going to make us happier in the long term.

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