Hey, hey everyone. Hoping everyone is good. Hoping everyone is great. Have you ever been in a

situation with someone where there's a disagreement or just purely a horrible falling out?

And there is no mention of this person. There is no contact. And then sometime later, from the ears and the mouths of someone

else, they bring information back to you and the situation becomes distorted. While you were the

one that was the victim, or there was issue with the other person, they seemed to turn it around

and make you seem as if the aggressor,

the one hard to deal with, the one hard to handle the bad friend

or the bad person in the relationship.

And oftentimes we want to straighten it out.

We want to give honesty to the situation.

We become appalled by the way that

people misconcrew in unaligned situations, whereas sometimes we over-explained to the point

of wanting people to know, I'm not like that, or that didn't happen. But can I tell you

something that is true across the board with a lot

of situations? People will often act indifferent and shift blame because they cannot deal with

themselves and their wrongs. Shifting blame is something they've done before to preserve their

perception and to never look like the bad person.

When you know a person who cares much about how people see them, right, there's a lack of

honesty, there's a lack of self-accountability, you'll always see those type of people shift

blame.

And while you are the type of person who knows where that honesty is in the condundrum of the situation,

you dishonor yourself when you feel like you have to repeat what happened 20 million times to people who, A, don't really care enough to believe you.

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