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Date with Cents

How to Stand Up for Yourself While Dating So You Can Attract Men Who Actually Value You

Date with Cents

TorahCents

Education, Leisure, How To, Relationships, Society & Culture

5.0536 Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2025

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Send episode requests here If you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting. In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming keeps you stuck with men who don't value you, and my S.T.A.N.D. framework that stops you from betraying yourself in real ...

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0:00.0

What's up, love a girl?

0:02.3

Welcome back to the date with sense podcast.

0:05.9

So this episode was inspired by the work I've been doing recently with clients in the

0:13.5

Curved to Cuff program.

0:15.1

We've been doing workshops.

0:18.3

We have, I've been creating frameworks for, for the clients around this because I'm

0:22.9

noticing a more of a trend that's happening where we, where men are doing things that we get

0:33.8

frustrated by, we get annoyed by, we get uncomfortable with, we get pissed off about,

0:40.2

and yet we go along with it.

0:43.4

And yet we play it cool.

0:46.4

And yet we act like it's not a big deal to him.

0:50.2

But behind the scenes, we are fuming, frustrated, annoyed, all the things, right?

0:58.5

I had a client recently posting to the curvy cuff container she wanted coaching

1:04.3

because there was a guy that said something to her.

1:08.3

It felt like a sexual innuendo.

1:10.6

She felt very uncomfortable about it. And she came to her. It felt like a sexual innuendo. She felt very uncomfortable about it.

1:12.8

And she came to me, you know, really upset about it. And then I asked her like about her

1:20.0

addressing it to him and she didn't. I asked to see like her messages and see how she responded

1:26.7

to him. And when I looked at it,

1:27.9

she was just playing it cute and playing it cool. But to me, there was like this subtle disgust and

1:34.0

and even a little bit of anger. And like that's an incongruent to be speaking to him that way.

1:40.8

And then coming to me with your frustration, there's a place where you've self-abandoned

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