How To Spot a Narcissist On The First Date
The Narcissists' Code
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 21 July 2025
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
Can you spot a narcissist on the first date? Is that even possible to see the traits on the first meeting or on the first date? In this video you get the perspective of a diagnosed narcissist on how to spot the red flags of a narcissist on the first date or first few encounters.
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| 0:32.8 | with lee your favorite self-aware narcissist y'all this morning we're talking about spotting a narcissist on the first date |
| 0:41.0 | spotting them early on like how the hell do you know that you're dealing with a toxic narcissistic person |
| 0:49.6 | very early on like when you're first sitting down at the dinner table, like Lee, you got to help us out here. Like do they eat funny? Do they have a third eye? Do they have a third nostril? Do they have a snake like tongue? What is it? How can you tell that they are narcissists very early on please help us leave please this the |
| 1:12.0 | snake the split tongue thing is crazy I'm sorry yeah sometimes so that I say |
| 1:19.3 | stupid stuff I mean yeah so I do make myself laugh I really really do but this |
| 1:27.3 | is something you have to get used to y'all when you deal with narcissistic people is that like we're going to say some crazy stuff but the fastest most efficient way to spot a narcissist on a first day y'all is to listen become an observer observer observer, not observer, observer, right? Because a lot of people |
| 1:48.6 | don't seem to under, it's not that you don't understand it. It's like so many people get tied up |
| 1:53.6 | in your own stuff. Like you, not that you're narcissistic, right? So many people are so accustomed to |
| 2:00.7 | dealing with narcissists and |
| 2:01.6 | toxic people that you expect a narcissist to just talk about themselves, right? But that's not going to be |
| 2:08.2 | true for most, for a lot of narcissists. A lot of narcissistic people, right? Especially the covert ones |
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