How To Spot A Good Man with Toni Romiti
Baby, this is Keke Palmer
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🗓️ 18 March 2025
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
What really makes a “good man”—and why does it feel like they’re on the endangered species list? This week, we’re getting into it with self-proclaimed tomboy and viral truth-teller Toni Romiti, the voice behind “Don’t Talk to Boys” and “Men Ain’t Shit Except Mine,”. Toni gets real about losing her dad at 12, unpacking her own internalized misogyny, and the wake-up call that came after blacking out at one of her own shows. Plus, she shares how she finally found a love where she didn’t have to shrink herself, soften her edges, or play small just to be chosen—proof that the right kind of love will meet you exactly where you are, no edits required.
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| 0:00.0 | This episode is sponsored by Airbnb. |
| 0:03.0 | If spring fever's got you feeling a little, |
| 0:05.7 | and see, might I suggest booking an Airbnb for a change of scenery? |
| 0:09.2 | Now, let's start the show. |
| 0:16.4 | What's up, listeners? |
| 0:17.7 | You know, there's been a lot of chatter lately about misogyny, |
| 0:20.6 | how we're living in the culture that just can't seem to let women live without some nonsense. |
| 0:25.7 | And even if you're not out here dealing with straight-up misogynist, there's this thing called internalized misogyny that we got to check ourselves on. |
| 0:32.8 | So what do we do about it and how do we even know who the good men or good people are versus the ones who we need to swerve on? |
| 0:41.3 | Well, my guest today has an EP out called Men Ain't Shit except mine and honey, we're about to get into it. |
| 0:47.3 | She's funny, she's real and she's got a voice that's impossible to ignore. |
| 0:51.3 | Her name's Tony Romitty, so let's dive in because baby, this is Kiki Palmer. No matter what we're doing in the car, just chilling, popo, Amazon music, sit back and listen. Life, love, sex, science, covering it all, especially the bad because money always involved. No matter what it is, we gonna make it make sense. Nothing else will do but kick it with the homies and kids. |
| 1:11.4 | So grab you a drink and a snack you enjoy and get into the vibe that only one this is |
| 1:15.5 | Oh, baby, this is this, this is Kiki, yeah. |
| 1:32.2 | Okay, so yes, I was telling you, Tony Romitty, I first discovered her on social media. |
| 1:37.5 | Um, she's been around for, I think, at least got to be, if not 10 years, almost 10 years. |
| 1:41.1 | Like, I remember her at the beginning of me even getting into social media when I was a teenager. |
| 2:01.9 | Maybe I'm stretching it, but she's been doing it for a long time. She tours a lot. She just got married a few years back. Maybe like, might have been more than that because her baby is about three, four years old. She's such a sweet mom. But she has this EP alcohol, many shit except mine. I feel like that's very sharing coded. Yes, I love that. She stole that for me. Yes. |
| 2:02.5 | Shout out to Larry. |
| 2:03.5 | There you go, yes. |
| 2:04.7 | That's so true, such a true statement. |
| 2:07.1 | But I'm excited to talk to her kind of just about that project, the personal connection |
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