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The Unapologetic Man Podcast

How to SPEAK IDENTITY Into Women (Attraction Mega Hack)

The Unapologetic Man Podcast

Mark Sing

Dating, Seduction, Masculinity, Girlfriend, Women, Pua, Masculine, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Nlp, Girls, Attraction, Self-improvement

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2025

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

The human mind is extremely receptive to positive reinforcement. By telling someone that they embody the traits that you find desirable, they will try to fulfill that identity because you've associated it with good behaviour.

This is an incredible tool when it comes to getting women to lean into the behaviours that you like, while avoiding the ones you dislike.

Sound complicated? Don't worry, in today's episode Mark breaks down this process in detail and provides plenty of examples so you can implement Speaking Identity into your repertoire of attraction building techniques.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The good news about erectile dysfunction is it can be cured with diet and exercise.

0:05.4

The bad news is it's going to be extremely difficult to get your wife to diet and exercise.

0:12.1

Welcome to the unapologetic man podcast.

0:15.2

The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies

0:22.4

for it.

0:29.8

What is up, your champions?

0:31.2

Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP.

0:34.1

And today, boys, we're going to talk about how to speak identity into women.

0:39.3

This is essentially shaping behavior so that she behaves both how you want her to behave,

0:45.2

as well as she wants to behave, to give her the most satisfaction in your guys' relationship.

0:50.5

So I'm not going to talk about my three-month coaching program today.

0:53.1

I'm not going to read yet another testimonial. We're going to jump straight into it. So I did a podcast about this. I believe it was in

0:59.0

23, a couple hundred episodes ago about preemptive compliments and shaping negative behavior

1:05.9

and punishing that behavior. This is a little bit similar, but a little bit differently.

1:10.0

I call this identity

1:11.6

hacking and or speaking identity into a woman. And by the way, if you have kids or you're going to

1:18.5

have kids in the future, really pay attention to this because this is straight parenting right here.

1:23.1

This is exactly how I'm raising my little girl to become the best human being she can possibly

1:28.8

become because that's obviously my mission, man. I want her to be happy. I want her to be

1:33.4

successful. I want her to be monetarily set. And as an NLP coach, I understand how important

1:39.2

the first seven years of life are. Therefore, I'm really taking a lot of energy. I'm intentionally speaking identity into my

1:47.1

daughter. Her name is Lucia, and she's five years old right now. I'm speaking identity into Lucia

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