How to Slide into a Girl's DMs on Social Media ... Instagram ... Facebook ... and the Dating Apps
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 29 September 2025
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
In this unfiltered episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the secrets to standing out in a girl's DMs when she's getting flooded with hundreds—if not thousands—of thirsty messages every day. Drawing from data collected in his Online Dating Masterclass (over 13,000 tested messages), Mark breaks down the psychology of what actually gets a response and why most men fail before they even hit "send."
From dialing in your profile photos and portraying a high-value lifestyle to crafting witty, curiosity-driven openers that spark replies, Mark gives you proven, field-tested strategies to separate yourself from the herd.
Key Takeaways:
- Why your photos and follower count matter more than you think.
- The importance of "pre-selection" and how to showcase it correctly.
- Four powerful DM openers that consistently get replies.
- Why being funny and teasing beats compliments every time.
- How to avoid looking like every other "thirsty guy" in her inbox.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:02:21] – Announcement: Mark's answering questions on Spotify/YouTube!
[00:03:38] – Why your online presence matters a LOT in 2025–2026
[00:05:14] – Instagram pictures are your no1 priority
[00:06:14] – Pre-selection: why women must see you with other attractive women
[00:07:57] – Follower count is important
[00:11:59] – Utilize AI tools to maximize your photos
[00:13:21] – Four powerful DM openers (tested across 13,000+ messages)
[00:18:12] – Student success stories from the coaching program
[00:20:08] – Four powerful DM openers continued
[00:24:06] – Final thoughts and invitation to apply for coaching
Connect With Mark:
Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/
Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/
Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula
About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | If you literally want to slide into a Hawkgirls DMs where she's getting hundreds, if not thousands of DMs from other thirsty guys, you need to differentiate yourself. |
| 0:11.7 | And that means playing the game, boys. You have to portray, even if it's a lie, that you have a high value lifestyle. |
| 0:19.1 | Believe me, there is nothing that irritates me more |
| 0:22.3 | than the hoops that we need to jump through in order to yank hawk girls. But it's either that |
| 0:27.9 | or just be alone for the rest of your life, masturbating in the corner, crying in your lap, |
| 0:32.7 | and using your tears as lubricant for masturbation. You are different. You have to be different. |
| 0:37.5 | The messages I'm going to give you are going to portray that you're different. |
| 0:41.0 | When you master the game, it actually becomes kind of fun. |
| 0:45.0 | Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. |
| 0:48.3 | The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man |
| 0:53.8 | without making any apologies for it. |
| 1:00.7 | What is up, boys? Today we are going to talk about how to slide into a girl's DMs, typically on |
| 1:09.2 | Instagram, but this can also be applied to Facebook, |
| 1:12.0 | the dating apps, anywhere where there's social media. |
| 1:15.5 | This is how to do it, boys. |
| 1:16.7 | And I cannot wait to share with you the final message that I'm going to give to you. |
| 1:21.9 | That's actually from my online dating master class that I had a couple months ago. |
| 1:26.8 | This was preview information. I wasn't |
| 1:28.9 | going to share it on my podcast because it's just that good. Do you guys remember the online |
| 1:33.1 | dating masterclass where we sent 13,267 messages to test every single message, whether it's |
| 1:41.8 | effective or not? We corroborated and gathered over 50 messages. |
| 1:46.8 | And this is one of them, boys. |
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