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are your insecurities jeopardizing a potentially good relationship now this came out of a

video that we just released a lot in the last week where i talked about people who bring you know we want to be

with a partner you're talking about red flags right it was all about red flags which is a hot topic

on the internet right now people are posting all those memes what's a red flag what's a warning sign

people are really looking out for those flags right now.

And we said, you know, one of the red flags is when we're in a relationship with somebody

or we're seeing somebody who, when we bring something up that is making us unhappy,

they make us feel ashamed of it or they make us feel embarrassed for even saying it or they

suddenly make us feel like we're not secure in the relationship

because we've now brought this up. And the fear of that is, of course, what stops us

bringing things up. We get very afraid if I bring this thing up, am I going to lose my power?

And as I was watching that video back in the last couple of days, I thought to myself,

if I wanted to critique this video, if I was looking to say, well, actually what Matthew

Hussie's saying here is quite dangerous, here's what I'd say.

I'd say, yeah, but what about when you're with someone who keeps bringing this thing up that

they're insecure about over and over again? And what they're bringing up isn't valid. What they're

bringing up is, is, you know, for example, rooted in a jealousy that's not rational.

And they keep making my life hell over it.

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