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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

How to Set Boundaries That Actually Create Peace

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Civility Media

Self-improvement, Relationships, Society & Culture, Education

4.98.9K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2026

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Busy has quietly become the most accepted excuse in our culture — and it’s slowly killing connection. In this episode, I break down the difference between being busy and living in a constant state of hurry, why both steal your peace and relationships, and how weak boundaries keep you stuck in overwhelm. I’ll share practical ways to create margin in your life, simple mindset shifts that change how you use your time, and specific phrases you can use to protect your focus without guilt. If you’ve ever felt rushed, exhausted, or like life is moving too fast — this one’s for you. Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Monarch Money. 50% off your first year at https://monarchmoney.com/jefferson  Our Place. Visit https://fromourplace.com/JEFFERSON and use code JEFFERSON for 10% off sitewide. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTok Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:29.6

There is a silent killer of connection, communication, conversations, relationships in our life.

0:38.3

And it's the word, busy.

0:42.3

Busy is probably the number one excuse in our culture,

0:46.3

and it seems to never be challenged.

0:49.3

In this episode, I'm going to be talking to myself

0:52.3

just as much I'm talking to you.

0:55.4

Busy and hurry.

0:57.9

The two combined have a way of destroying

1:02.4

just about everything that brings fulfillment in our life.

1:07.3

And it's something that's been resonating with me a lot

1:09.3

because if I am too busy for other people,

1:13.2

one day I'm gonna get to an age

1:15.0

where they're gonna be too busy for me.

1:18.0

And I don't know if I feel that way

1:19.9

because I'm a parent or I have parents

1:23.7

and they have parents that are getting older

1:26.2

and having a harder time

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