Hey everyone, it's Shaguel Breeney Lee and welcome to the pep talk podcast where we have real, war, relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future, the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table? Baby, I am the table.

I love a little bit more than that, ladies.

Come on.

Dust settles, queens don't.

And don't forget, know your worth and then attacks.

Period.

But I wanted to talk to you guys about, sis, she ain't your friend.

And the reason why I want to talk about this topic is because I feel like as women, we have

a tendency to call people our friends before they've had a chance to prove themselves.

And I was talking about this on my life a few days ago.

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We think that love bombing is only done by men or narcissists, but a lot of women love bomb other women

into friendships, into relationships with them. This is just going to be like a chit-chat. I'm going to share

some of my experiences and I don't really have much direction for today. So just flow with me.

I was talking to someone the other day and I was basically saying how

the reason why men seem to keep their friendships for longer and it seems like their friendships

are stronger and deeper is because as women naturally, we are very relational. We feel love by

talking and communicating and diving deep and sharing. That's how we as

women get our sense of worth by community and being together and being in friendships. You know,

from such young ages, we've always been in groups. We are like wolves. We hang around in packs and

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