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Sustainable Minimalists

How To Quit

Sustainable Minimalists

Bleav + Stephanie Seferian

Leisure, Parenting, Kids & Family, Home & Garden

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 7 February 2023

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Quitting is aerobics for your brain; it's also the counterintuitive secret to success. Today I bring you a conversation with Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Julia Keller about how to view quitting not as a pejorative but instead as a tool for swapping one destiny for another.  Here's a preview: [5:00] How the self-help movement created our anti-quit bias [9:00] The similarities between honeybees and Simone Biles, with a nod toward strategic quitting [17:00] How do you quit a high-stakes situation? (Answer: quasi-quitting!) [23:00] Words of encouragement for listeners concerned they'll regret it later [27:00] How parents listening can best support their children when they want to quit  Resources mentioned: Pre-order Quitting: A Life Strategy (to release April 18) Orlo Nutrition Join our (free!) community here Find your tribe. Sustainable Minimalists are on Facebook, Instagram + Youtube Email me and say hello! MamaMinimalistBoston@gmail.com Our Sponsors:* Thank you to LifeStraw! https://lifestraw.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sustainable-minimalists/exclusive-content

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello there friends welcome back my name is Stephanie Safarian and you're listening to episode

0:05.2

342 of sustainable minimalists a twice weekly show about intentional and eco-minimalist living.

0:13.1

On today's show, we're discussing quitting.

0:16.8

Our society tends to have an anti-quit bias, doesn't it?

0:21.5

No one ever wants to be called a quitter. We tend to want to believe

0:27.4

thanks to our rugged individualist origins that if we just work hard enough for long enough if we just

0:36.1

persevere we will succeed. But my guest today argues that while animals in the wild know when and how to quit,

0:46.3

humans not so much.

0:49.2

And worse, our misguided reverence for perseverance, our white-knuckle grip on the idea that our destiny lies exclusively

0:58.1

in our own two hands, often keeps us in the wrong places for longer than we should be there.

1:04.0

This is one of those intentional living episodes that I'm bringing you today

1:08.8

in which we take an idea that is conventionally regarded one way and we flip it.

1:14.2

We turn it on its head, we take things and shake them up and turn it upside down.

1:19.4

Today we are questioning whether we can and should expand upon our understanding of quitting so as to live better.

1:28.2

Today I'm speaking with Pulitzer Prize winning journalist Julia Keller on her upcoming book, Quitting, A Life Strategy.

1:36.5

Now the book is not out yet my friends it doesn't come out until April but if

1:40.6

after listening to today's episode you just love Julia as much as I do and you need to read this book you can

1:46.5

pre-order it link is in the show notes and before I bring you Julia a quick note a very important note

1:57.0

Tom Brady does come up in my conversation with Julia today. We use Tom as an example of someone who won't quit,

2:01.0

but please know that that is because this episode was recorded

2:05.3

a full 12 hours before Tom Brady announced his latest decision, yet again, to retire from football. Julia I am really thrilled to talk to you today. How are you?

2:18.0

I'm very good, thank you. A little cold. Same. It comes with the winter territory, doesn't it?

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