Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery. This is Anne. I have a member of our community on today's episode. We're going to call her Tanya. Before we get to her story, thank you to those of you who have rated the BTR podcast on Apple Podcast or other

podcasting apps. We have right now at the time of this recording over 500

ratings online or like at a 4.7 but on the app were at 4.5 and there's so many

other podcasts out there that don't use the abuse model when it comes to pornography use and sex addiction.

They have five-star reviews, which is fine.

I'm happy for them.

But I would really like to get our podcast back up to five stars. We used to be there and a few people who don't

agree that pornography is abuse decided they wanted to rate the podcast, which is also

fine and absolutely they're right. But I really want to get it back up to five

stars for victims of this type of abuse victims of emotional abuse and

psychological abuse and sexual coercion because I want victims to know that this is a safe

podcast and this is the place for them. Mostly it's people who are like hey you don't

help men who are victims why and I'm like because this podcast is specifically for women or they'll say

you're being too hard on these guys sex addiction isn't that bad they're sick and they need help

and it's not abuse and stuff like that.

So here's one of the five star ratings that we got.

She said, nodding your head the entire time.

I'm only a few episodes in on this podcast but I've found myself nodding in agreement with every

episode every comment every realization that someone knows and actually understands what I'm going through

I think we're just at the tip of the iceberg, uncovering how long men have been allowed to treat women so horribly and not labeling them

properly as the abusers they've become. Not all men obviously. Please educate yourself and listen to this

podcast. Every single one of your ratings, especially with reviews and with five stars,

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