How to pick up a woman when they're in groups.

Those are fun.

Well, the important thing is rapport.

And when I was in real estate, this was super important because often the wife would make the decisions regarding the house.

And if all you dealt with was the husband, he gave you their credit information, their income information, he was the one coming in so you can get them pre-qualified.

And then he would, when it's time, after the loan's been pre-approved, they come in with the wife.

If you hope, you got great rapport with the husband, or the boyfriend, you took time to get to know them and your friends with them everything's great and then you just kind of treat the girlfriend or the wife

like an afterthought it's like then what it ends up happening is she doesn't like you because

you never took the time to win her over and the way you create rapport the other human beings is

ask questions take a sincere authentic interest and other people and so like say you're at a party or you're at a bar

situation an easy thing to do for an icebreaker is just go over and raise your glass like the

mayor campaign from my book, 3% man.

You just, you go over and you raise your glass, hey, what are you ladies up to? And you're like, oh, we're going here. We're going next door. We're doing this. We're doing this. We're here at happy hour. And then where are you all from? Or what do you get, you know, you've asked her what they're doing tonight. And so what oftentimes works well, because remember, it's a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

And so the girl that you really want to ask out, it's like she kind of comes last on the list.

And so then you can start chatting with her friends and asking them questions and getting them to talk. Or you could be more direct. You could say, well, I came over because your friend, your girlfriend, she's really beautiful. And it just seems like life of the party or she's just, you guys all seem to love her. And I'm looking for a good girl. And so I want to come over here. And would you recommend that I should take her out on a date? Is she a good person? Is she easy going, easy to get along with? Is she a nice girl? What do you guys think of her? And I've used that before. And sometimes you'll get surprising responses. They'll start laughing. And if they know her well and chip in and start trying to sell you on why she is a great person or a great catch or whatever. And I've also done that. I had these two women sit

next to me one time at a restaurant. And I just turned to the one that was with her and I said,

and I asked her about her friend if she was a good person. Would you recommend I take her out? And, you know, they both started laughing. And she says, well, honestly, I just met her. I was like, well, then you're a big help. And then so we got a laugh and they were getting ready to leave. So I ended up getting that girl's phone number and called her later. But it's really easy. But if you're like in a social situation, maybe you're at a party,

maybe you go to somebody's birthday party or a Super Bowl party or something like that.

And so there's a group of women and asking things like that because it puts the,

especially when you're asking them for a recommendation for their friend,

then what it does is they try to help. They want to

sell their friend on you, and it makes it easy. And then you can just split off from her and start

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