I know a lot of clients who stick around with men who are extremely controlling, extremely

suspicious of everything they do. And it's a hard trap to get out of if you're really attracted

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All right, Gary, this week we are going to be talking about one of the most potent emotions that people experience throughout the dating and love process, which is jealousy.

Gary, what do you think, man? Have you ever felt jealous without the dating process?

You know, and it's funny because, you know, as you say, like, this is, this is a big deal.

Like, jealousy in relationships is one of the biggest relationship wreckers there are. I don't know,

maybe because it's of my background or the kind of person I was, and that's why I went

in the relationships in the first. Like, I've never been a particularly jealous person. I've dated a

couple, though. And it's very clearly a relationship problem.

Do you consider yourself a jealous person?

No, I'm not.

I'm actually like, I think it has driven some women crazy because in the past, because I would be the type who would go out with like a girlfriend and she would like leave

for the night and go talk to a ton of other people and that's it and then

we come back to each other and I'd be like great how was your night but it's actually kind of like how

Jess and I mostly socialized like that's one thing I noticed when we first started dating is

we'd go to a party and we're both very social so we'd actually kind of separate especially once

we started living

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