How to Overcome Comparison with Kia Stephens

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Alli Worthington

Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 19 June 2023

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Hey friend! We are over halfway through June- can you believe it?! I’ve got a brand new Smart Girl I can’t wait for you to meet today! My friend Kia Stephens is the founder of Entrusted Women, a speaker, a podcaster, and the author of Overcoming Father Wounds: Exchanging Your Pain for God’s Perfect Love. Kia is a go-getter, an innovator, and an incredible leader. Her book is special to my heart- so much so that I endorsed it!- and I’m so glad we get to have this conversation. Listen in as Kia and I talk about: One thing you can do to overcome comparison Seeing the hand of God in waiting seasons (especially when you’re a go-getter with a lot of ideas!) Why it is so important to separate ego from the results of your work The value of surrounding yourself with people who are where you want to be Kia Stephens is a speaker, podcaster, founder of Entrusted Women, and author of Overcoming Father Wounds: Exchanging Your Pain for God’s Perfect Love. She is a contributing writer for Proverbs 31 Ministries and iBelieve. Kia and her husband have two children. Favorite quotes: “I started to celebrate the women publicly that had what I wanted and was doing what I wanted to do.” “The comparison if you don’t figure out how to kill it is only going to intensify and increase. It is a demon you have to consistently slay.” “God is a crockpot and we are more of a microwave people so when he forces us to get on his timetable and be the crockpot, it is challenging but it is always best.” “God created us to counter losses, keep it moving, and go on to the next thing.” “When it comes to selling, we are really just talking about something that solves a problem, something that we believe in, and we are also giving people choice options.” “Don’t put limits on what God can do in your life.” Links to great things we discussed: Kia Stephens Website Kia Stephens Instagram Kia Stephens Facebook Kia Stephens YouTube Entrusted Women Website Overcoming Father Wounds: Exchanging Your Pain for God’s Perfect Love Chai Crème Frappuccino Chai Tea Latte Parrot Teleprompter The Good Place Josh Garrels Farther Along - Josh Garrels Pure Encapsulations O.N.E. Multivitamin Order your copy of Remaining You While Raising Them here. Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli

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0:00.0	when it comes to selling specifically in Christianity and specifically with women,
0:05.5	we get all uncomfortable.
0:06.9	But when it comes to selling, we're really just talking about something that solves a problem,
0:13.1	something that we believe in, and we're also giving people choice and options.
0:18.7	And once I realized that, it took some of the awkwardness and the
0:23.9	dis-ease was selling out of it.
0:28.5	Hey, hey, I'm Allie, and I believe that an emotionally healthy you is the greatest gift
0:34.2	you can give yourself, your family, and the world. This is your weekly investment
0:39.1	in your personal development. Join discussions with top experts as we focus on how to achieve
0:44.2	your dreams, grow your business, and deepen your faith. As always, we keep it practical with
0:49.6	lots of tools and action steps that you can put into motion today. I'm so glad you're here. Let's dive in.
0:58.8	Welcome to the show today. You're in the right place because it is Smart Girl Summer. Now,
1:03.0	Smart Girl Summer is an eight-week series where I feature some of my most brilliant friends. I want to
1:07.6	share their behind the scenes, what makes them tick, what's working for them,
1:11.2	and just the stories that we never hear. And today we're with my friend Kea Stevens as she
1:16.7	shares the behind the scenes of building her business and her ministry. This is one of those stories
1:21.7	after we recorded it. She said, I love this because I never get to share what I'm learning. I
1:26.0	never get to share the stories of how I got
1:28.1	here. So I really love it. I hope you love it as much as we did. Now, after we talk with Kia,
1:33.7	I have some fun recommendations. I have a show, a song, and a health idea. But my biggest
1:39.3	recommendation is that you pre-order remaining you while raising them. I have a great free course for you. It's all
1:45.7	about lightening the mental load. The mental load is all of the stuff going on that you are
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