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Dear Young Married Couple

How to OUTGROW PORN w/ Drew Boa, MA, Author and Coach

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8871 Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

"My generation was raised by pornography. When it comes to learning sexuality, porn was our parent. Porn was our substitute girlfriend. Porn was our Sex Ed teacher. More importantly, it became our pacifier.⁠" - Drew Boa, MA Drew Boa is passionate about helping men become porn-free before marriage and he runs the "Husband Material" programs (links below). In today's episode, he shares a method to help you get to the bottom of a pornography addiction. To download a FREE PDF of the FLOSS method discussed in the episode today, go here. Drew recommended: Redeemed Sexuality by Drew Boa (book for small groups) Unwanted by Jay Stringer Unwanted Workbook by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa HusbandMaterialMen.com (FB Group) Husband Material Academy (Coaching Program) Husband Material Podcast You can reach Drew Boa at: Text: (805) 881-3673 E-mail: drew@husbandmaterial.com Website: www.husbandmaterial.com IG: @husbandmaterialmen   Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com   Join us for the next Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Yeah, my generation was raised by pornography. When it comes to learning sexuality,

0:37.3

born was our parent.

0:39.3

Porn was our substitute girlfriend.

0:42.3

Porn was our sex ed teacher.

0:45.3

And I think more importantly, it became our pacifier.

0:48.3

I like to say a trigger is a time machine.

0:50.3

And when I get triggered, I'm in the time machine.

0:52.3

And that's where pornography comes in. In that freeze state, it puts a stop to the crying child. It's not a battle against our sexuality.

1:04.0

It's a battle for the sake of sexuality. Basically, every trigger tells a story. It's a time machine taking me back to when I was five years old, 10 years old, 15 years old, and the origin story becomes amazingly apparent.

1:17.6

Like, it's not that hard to find when you ask a very simple question. When have I felt this way before?

1:22.6

Horne is a cheap substitute. It's really a symbol for the thing that I really do need, that I really do want.

1:29.5

We can experience that kind of reparenting by the father, then that little boy can grow up.

1:37.7

Dear young married couple, you're in a busy season of your life. You're probably working

1:43.7

and involved in ministry. On top of that,

1:46.5

you might even be parents or students. You're maxed, but you really want to stay connected in your marriage.

1:54.0

And that's why we're bringing this podcast to you. I'm Adam King. And I'm Carissa King, and we work

1:59.2

with busy couples just like you in our

2:01.2

counseling office here in Sacramento, California. We also work with couples all over the world

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