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Seeing Other People

"How to Not Lose Hope That Your Person Is Still Out There"

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2024

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what it was like to reenter the dating world as a man in his early 30s who hadn’t dated someone new since 2010. Brandon shares how he has since moved halfway across the country and started a new job while navigating the complexities of modern dating. Tune in for a conversation where we explore relationship dynamics and discuss the importance of self-awareness and patience.

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:04.9

Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered.

0:09.9

It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always unfiltered experiences.

0:17.9

Think you're alone out there?

0:19.0

Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom

0:21.5

or whose last date ended up being a catfish? Think again. My name is Brandon, 36 years old, and

0:29.0

currently live in Houston, Texas. Awesome. Brandon. Welcome to seeing other people. So you have had quite the journey in your personal

0:41.4

life, your relationships, everything over the last 10, 15 years, I'd say. There's a lot in your

0:51.3

story that I'm really excited to get into. So you tell me where you want to start.

0:56.9

Yeah.

0:57.7

Well, much like I would imagine most of your listeners, what a ride, I think is probably the best way to say it.

1:04.4

But, you know, I think there's some beautiful moments in that in life anyway.

1:09.4

But yes, so I was married.

1:12.6

I got married to, I guess at college sweetheart, so to speak.

1:17.6

We had met in college and was married in the summer of 2016.

1:23.6

That ultimately did not work out.

1:26.6

We were married for about four years and, you know, things happened, divorce happened.

1:33.8

It was pretty shocking to me just from a place of it wasn't what I wanted or certainly wasn't what I was hoping for.

1:41.7

But as life goes, you know, we kind of play with the hand we're

1:45.8

dealt, not necessarily what we're hoping for sometimes. But yeah, so that was a unique situation,

1:52.2

and it was kind of funny because the divorce and separation was initiated during COVID,

2:00.2

which, of course, was just a wild time. And I hadn't

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