I am about to introduce you to a phrase that will change your life.

I decided to do a whole podcast episode about it because I realized that my husband and my best friend and I

we end up using this phrase about three times a day right now.

When we're facing these impossible decisions, all of us have had our lives impacted by COVID and quarantine and all that in various ways.

We keep coming back to this phrase my best friend said the other day

this is this is really helping me maintain some semblance of peace and sanity as I face all this so get ready

get your pencil out get your pen out, get your pen out, get your notes app out.

I think that you will find yourself employing this phrase a lot as well.

Let me begin by establishing what's going on in my life that I would have such a

use for this phrase to employ to describe situations where everything is difficult.

If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen that I was

drinking on my pantry floor this weekend drinking alone drinking mead

because you know I can't I can't just sit there with a Bud light if I'm going to drink

alone on my pantry floor craft me mead. And hey, it's not drinking alone if you're on

Instagram. And there you go, I mean right now you just got your value from

listening to this podcast this kind of wisdom

where else are you going to get that? It's not drinking alone if you're talking to

Instagram so here let's review this because I lost so many followers from my Instagram

escapades this weekend. You know, Instagram is supposed to be a place of

positivity and I can never bring the level of perfection and

positivity that you're supposed to and I pay the price for it in my follower

numbers like to give you an idea, I got a shout out

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