How to Make a Real Apology
The Science of Happiness
PRX and Greater Good Science Center
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 25 October 2018
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
"I'm sorry you feel that way."
Some apologies can actually make things worse. Our Happiness Guinea Pigs, Jolenta Greenburg and Kristin Meinzer of the By the Book podcast, try a more effective way of saying sorry.
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| 0:00.0 | We all know that sitting for hours of screen time is bad, but can we fix it? |
| 0:05.0 | I think a lot of us don't realize how much pain we live in because of our interactions with computing. |
| 0:11.0 | Ultimately, it's a culture change. |
| 0:13.4 | NPR's Body Electric, a special interactive series investigating the relationship between our |
| 0:19.4 | tech and our bodies. |
| 0:21.2 | Listen in the Ted Radio Hour Feed wherever you get your podcasts. |
| 0:27.1 | When my husband Brad and I got married, right afterwards he went and lived on the road for a year because he's |
| 0:36.3 | a news reporter and he was covering the election. We had a plan that when he was |
| 0:42.3 | done covering the election, |
| 0:44.0 | we were going to go on a big trip together to sort of reunite, |
| 0:47.5 | just get some alone time together, reconnect, |
| 0:50.5 | and it was gonna to be amazing. |
| 0:53.0 | We decided to go to Argentina because that was a dream of both of ours. |
| 0:58.0 | Brad got very into researching and planning and he was so amped on this trip. I was like, all right, great, like run with it, dude, and I sort of sat back and let him plan everything and every time he talked about a leg of the trip he wanted to plan and be like sure sure let's do it everything sounds awesome. |
| 1:18.0 | I didn't really think about it much. |
| 1:21.0 | When we got on the very long flight I was like so what are we actually |
| 1:26.5 | doing and he was like we're going to go to this remote location and hike with like a group of |
| 1:31.9 | people forever and then that location and hike on a glacier with a group of people forever |
| 1:36.6 | And I was like oh my gosh so we're going on like group hikes with strangers. I thought we were going to be chilling in like a warm city and I basically had a huge |
| 1:46.4 | Sort of blame me |
| 1:49.0 | panic attack on our flight and just freaked out and I was like I feel like I'm trapped I hate this I hate you I never wanted to go on this trip why you're doing this to me now I'm stuck going on hikes with strangers and I'd rather die and this is not relaxing or about connecting at all. |
| 2:05.0 | I was really harsh. I mean it got to the point where I was suggesting ending our marriage. |
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