How to Love a Battered Woman w/ Nia Renee | Episode 190
Girl Stop Playin | #1 Podcast for Black Women
KOEREYELLE, Personal Development Coach
4.8 • 584 Ratings
🗓️ 15 December 2024
⏱️ 46 minutes
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Summary
Today, we have an incredible guest joining us, my girl Nia Renee! She’s not just a powerhouse; she’s the creator of “How to Love a Battered Woman,” a relationship coach, motivational speaker, author, and so much more.
Now, y’all already know I love to start things off by letting my guests properly introduce themselves, so we can make sure we’re putting some respect on her name! Nia opens up about her journey, sharing how she turned her pain into purpose. She talks about her traumatic childhood, growing up in a household where her mother was not just a parent, but also her first bully. This led her into a cycle of toxic and abusive relationships in adulthood because that chaos was all she knew.
We dive deep into the roots of her trauma, discussing how her upbringing affected her view on relationships and self-worth. Nia shares how she had to unlearn those toxic patterns and do the hard work to heal and grow. She gets real about how, for so many of us, the issues we face as adults are rooted in childhood experiences that we haven’t fully recognized or worked through.
Nia’s story is a powerful reminder that no matter what you’ve been through, you can heal, grow, and step into your power. She talks about the importance of developing a strong relationship with yourself, learning to trust your own instincts, and setting boundaries to protect your peace. Nia also highlights that healing is a journey, not a destination, and it’s okay if we slip up sometimes—as long as we keep moving forward.
This episode is all about breaking free from the cycles of abuse and trauma, and learning to love yourself first so that you can attract the love you truly deserve. Nia’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, self-awareness, and the importance of doing the inner work to create the life and love you want. So, if you’re ready to stop playin’ and start workin’ on your healing, this is the episode for you!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode of the Girl Stop Playing podcast. |
| 0:04.5 | It's your favorite home girl, Corrielle, here to encourage you to stop playing with your potential and start working for what you want in life and in love. |
| 0:13.5 | You already know that I'm bringing you the information and the conversations to help you make the money and get the honey. |
| 0:23.3 | You can have it all as long as you are willing to work. And today I have a working woman joining us here on Girl Stop Plan. We got my |
| 0:31.5 | girl, Nia Renee. Welcome to the show. Thank you for being here. I always like to start the conversation by having my guests properly introduce yourself so we can make sure we put some respect on your name. |
| 0:45.4 | Period. Also, I'm really excited to be here. So thank you so much. I'm Nea Renee. I am the creator of How to Love a Battered Woman where we, we, not we, I, where I am a relationship |
| 0:58.5 | coach, motivational speaker, author, model, et cetera. But I also work to assist and help people |
| 1:06.5 | define their power and step into their purpose. So how to love a battered woman? |
| 1:13.1 | That definitely, how we even got here, I think it might have even been threads. |
| 1:17.7 | It was thread. |
| 1:18.6 | Where I first came across your content. |
| 1:21.6 | And I think you were specifically, I think you were actually talking about like how you were raised. I don't even think you were talking talking about, like, how you were raised. |
| 1:27.6 | I don't even think you were talking about like a relationship issue, you know, an abusive |
| 1:32.8 | relationship or anything like that. |
| 1:34.0 | But when I came over to Instagram, then the How to Love a Badder Woman started to make |
| 1:38.2 | sense when I started to go through some of your content. |
| 1:40.1 | So I would love to start with childhood because, I mean, it's really the root of all of the traumas, the drama, the issues, the tears, the things that we find ourselves dealing with later in life. |
| 1:54.7 | The challenges that we have are a lot of times rooted in childhood is that we just have not either faced, recognized, or work through. |
| 2:03.5 | So talk a little bit about what your childhood look like, you know, as a child, but then kind of |
| 2:09.1 | what you've realized about your childhood as an adult. |
| 2:11.6 | Because a lot of times we normalize our childhood because that's all we do. |
| 2:15.0 | Describe it now with your adult kind of perspective. |
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