How To Listen To Your Intuition...And How To NOT Date Rappers
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 26 February 2020
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
It’s easy to tell someone to listen to their gut instinct…but it’s a lot harder to hear it inside of ourselves. I’ll give you actionable clear-cut steps to picking up what your intuition is trying to put down, help another Shalloner fix her friends fractured self-esteem, and lay down the law
for one scheming to date a hip-hop star!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top ShalinXO podcast. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, |
| 0:13.0 | where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:18.0 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the |
| 0:21.6 | past week. Gotta love quandary? Head to my website, Shaolinlesser.com to get connected, and also shop my merch |
| 0:28.0 | and take some fun quizzes. Be sure to rate and review this podcast if you like it, and follow me on |
| 0:32.7 | Instagram at ShaolinXO and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. |
| 0:46.9 | Welcome back to the podcast, Shalaners. Let's get relaxed. Let's breathe in through our nose and out through our mouth. Drop those shoulders. Forget about whatever douchebag is on your mind. |
| 0:56.3 | Now that I said it, it's probably on your mind even more. One more inhale. |
| 1:03.2 | Yeah, girl, that's the goods. All right. So today, we're going to start with a question from Lauren. |
| 1:09.8 | She said, for almost two years, I've had strong chemistry with my boss, but we kept it mostly professional. A month ago, he left the company and two weeks later, we hooked up, excuse me, we hooked up and again last week. He's a little bit older, a dad, writing a book, and told me that he and his girlfriend are in the midst of a breakup. |
| 1:44.8 | I don't know much about his relationship, but I'm 29 and I do know a creep or a fuck boy when I see it. And he's neither. There's always been a mutual respect. I think we're both hesitant to cross each other's boundaries. Him being my old boss plays a part in my hesitations and he has, too. Now, it's all consuming in my mind. |
| 1:46.7 | If it's his move right now, is it? |
| 1:47.4 | I don't know. |
| 1:47.9 | Help. |
| 1:54.9 | So, hmm, the sad truth is, a man can fall into more than two categories. |
| 1:56.2 | Fuck boy or creep. |
| 1:59.3 | They can be a lot of different types of awful. |
| 2:00.7 | Many different types. There's not only two types of viruses. AIDS and Corona. No, no, no, no, no. There's norovirus. There's HPV. There's a billion. And men are like viruses. They adapt. They modify. And they feed off their host until it's destroyed. Guys can be what I call, and have always called, a nice guy fuck boy. |
| 2:20.3 | Ooh, the good guy fuck boy. |
| 2:23.0 | It's a guy who really is a good guy. |
| 2:25.6 | I mean, he's not evil. |
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