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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

How to Listen to Your Baby

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.73.8K Ratings

🗓️ 26 February 2018

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

A mother wonders when and how to react to her baby’s sounds of frustration, whether she should intervene in her child’s self-directed play sessions or observe from a distance. “I don’t want to be her savior,” she writes, “but I don’t want her to feel unsupported either.” For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible (adbl.co/2OBVztZ). Also available for download, her audio series "Sessions" -- recorded consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com). Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Janet Lansbury, welcome to Unruffelt.

0:05.4

Today I'm going to be responding to a question from a parent who says,

0:09.9

her six-month-old seems to make sounds of frustration all day long when she's involved in self-directed

0:16.7

play.

0:18.5

And this mom is wondering how, when, or if, she should be stepping in.

0:23.8

Here's the email I received.

0:28.3

Hi Janet, thank you for your work.

0:30.4

It benefits me and my little one every day.

0:33.2

She is six months old and has begun making sounds of frustration, seemingly almost all day.

0:39.9

I interpret it as her being bored or frustrated with her toys.

0:43.6

I'm a little unsure of how often to step in to her self-directed play sessions when she

0:48.9

does this, to offer either social support, pass her a different toy, or change her body

0:54.1

position from front to back.

0:56.4

And while I allow the groaning to continue, take her for a walk, or observe from a distance

1:01.0

without interference as much as possible.

1:03.6

I don't want to be her savior, but I don't want her to feel unsupported either.

1:07.8

Your advice will be appreciated.

1:09.7

Thanks Janet.

1:10.7

Okay, so this is all very fresh in my mind right now because I have a new, young infant

1:17.5

group that I'm working with.

1:19.4

It's been a while since I've had an infant group, so it's really nice to revisit all the

1:24.9

issues that happen.

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