How To Let Go Of Toxic Relationships

THE ED MYLETT SHOW

Ed Mylett

Education, Business, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.9 • 13.6K Ratings

🗓️ 7 September 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

This episode puts YOU in the spotlight as I answer your questions! Today’s episode is just me and YOU 1:1. This week’s question is… ”Can you please help me change my spouse in the way they behave?” Sorry to disappoint you, but YOU CAN’T change ANYONE. AND you must STOP trying to change people. They’re not going to change just because you want them to. ALL CHANGE COMES FROM WITHIN. And here’s the truth. when you try to change others, it’s exhausting and DOES NOT WORK! You are wasting TIME, ENERGY, and EFFORT. They will not do it for you. In fact, they will RESIST, REBEL, and RESENT you. Instead, you have two choices… ACCEPT WHO THEY ARE, complete with their flaws and shortcomings …or…WALK AWAY. If you are struggling in any kind of relationship, romantic, professional, or a friendship… ❗️THIS EPISODE will make you face the tough questions you’ve been avoiding and help you get on track to creating better relationships.

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0:00.0	This is The End My Let's Show.
0:10.2	All right, welcome back to the show.
0:11.4	I love our Thursday episodes because it gives me a chance to answer your questions on
0:15.8	the show.
0:16.8	So I love creating content for you when I do the interviews or my solo episodes, but I
0:20.3	also love answering your questions because I know that it's exactly the things that you
0:24.1	need help with.
0:25.6	And so today's no exception.
0:26.6	By the way, if you have something you want help with or a question answered, you can
0:29.5	DM me on Instagram at Ed My Lett and there's a chance to end up on the show like it did
0:33.8	today.
0:34.8	Today's question is all about change, which is a really interesting one, except not change
0:38.5	of oneself, change of another person.
0:40.4	So this person's question was, can you please help me change my spouse in the way they behave?
0:45.8	Let me be very clear with you.
0:47.8	No, I can't.
0:49.4	And more importantly, neither can you.
0:52.4	So many of us, and I'll put myself included in this, we are wasting so much time, effort
0:57.6	and energy trying to get another human being to change when they're not going to.
1:02.9	They're certainly not going to change for you.
1:05.4	If a human being is going to change their behavior, they're going to change that behavior
1:08.9	because they choose to because they want to and no controlling, no threatening, no encouraging
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