How to "Let Go of the How"
Big Conversations with Haley Hoffman Smith
Haley Hoffman Smith
4.9 • 610 Ratings
🗓️ 30 May 2023
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
Let's play with perspectives in this episode - maybe just maybe, it's actually a BETTER, more magical way to live to not know all the details. Maybe the need to know the HOW can be released so we can live into the magic! This whole episode offers new perspectives for anyone who wants to control the outcome (guilty) with some exercises that can also help.
We have a 90 minute EFT Tapping Slingshot Session on EXACTLY THIS TOPIC happening as part of the Surrender Series Slingshot Sessions June 11-14! Get tickets here: https://www.universe.com/events/surrender-series-slingshot-sessions-tickets-WJ9TZN
The sessions:
LET GO OF THE HOW (Relax and Be Guided)
This session is rooted in the quote, "I let go of the HOW and I trust in the Universe completely." When there's something we REALLY want, it's normal for our brains to be running like a hamster on a wheel, trying to control every step and figure out the HOW on the way there. The TRUTH is, we want to let in the Divine/the Universe to guide the process - because things have a way of coming together in really beautiful ways that we couldn't have pre-planned.
In this session, we'll be releasing the need to control to allow for far more peace & ROOM for the Divine to come in. Instead of having our fists clenched in a NEED, we move into more of an open palm, "I am ready and open, show me the way."
DETACH AND RECEIVE (Break Free)
This session is all about DETACHING to set yourself free. Perhaps you're currently attached to something that just isn't working out and it's causing a great deal of friction, or something that has reached its energetic expiration date in your life. Or, perhaps you're attached to a manifestation and a vision you have for your life, and you know that you need to detach a little to let the magic in.
In this empowering session, we'll be releasing the ironclad grip of attachment, to truly BREAK FREE of the belief that we NEED whatever we are attached to. This provides the space for MAGIC to come in.
WAITING SEASON (Love Your Life NOW)
We all invariably find ourselves in seasons of waiting from time to time, where it feels like our joy or the next best thing is just around the corner, but not here yet. As a result, we often suspend our happiness and feel like we're waiting in the balance. If you ever say, "I'll be happy WHEN….", this session is absolutely for you. We'll be releasing anything that keeps us out of the present moment.
When we're able to relax into our lives RIGHT NOW, even in the absence of what we want, it changes the energetic landscape of everything, and actually brings in what we want even faster. This moment of our lives has something to teach us. We must show up fully, ready to deepen into it, in order to fully glean the lessons and experiences. Then, before we know it, what we'd been waiting for will arrive.
FAITH BOOST (Bonus Session)
In this one hour session gifted to everyone who gets the full Surrender Package, we'll be boosting some major FAITH! It's challenging to trust the process when our faith tank is low - but when we're reminded that things do happen in perfect ways at the perfect time, it's so much easier to yield to the Universe and know that everything is happening FOR US. This session will help to ease worries and concerns, settling you into the truth that everything has a way of working out for us in beautiful ways.
Tickets to the Surrender Series close Wednesday, June 7th, at 11:59pm ET. Replays for these sessions will be available for $177 instead of $133 after this time, so it's recommended to take advantage of live session pricing, even if you can't make the live sessions.
LIVE SESSION SCHEDULE (If you can't make the live sessions, no worries! The replays are JUST as effective and you'll have lifetime access granted right after the live session happens. You can always email the team/Haley with any questions/if you need additional guidance.)
Sunday, June 11th 6:00-7:30pm ET | LET GO OF THE HOW
Monday, June 12th 1:00-2:30pm ET | DETACH & RECEIVE
Tuesday, June 13th 7:00-8:30pm ET | WAITING SEASON
Wednesday, June 14th 1:00-2:00pm ET | FAITH BOOST Bonus Session
Calendar invites will be sent for every session you register for.
With any and all questions, email team@haleyhoffmansmith.com.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | What's helped me most with letting go of the how is knowing that the way things tend to unfold |
| 0:06.7 | is always so much better than we could have planned in our heads. And it's always such a delight |
| 0:11.1 | to experience it that way. Hello, my friends. You're listening to the big conversations podcast. |
| 0:17.1 | I'm your host, Haley Hoffman Smith, and I'm a subconscious breakthrough coach, a content creator, |
| 0:21.4 | and a singer songwriter who is obsessed with all things spirituality, rewiring your subconscious |
| 0:26.1 | mind, receiving guidance from the universe, finding our highest vibration, and manifesting the life |
| 0:31.2 | of our dreams. You're in the right place if you're ready to tap into the magic that's been |
| 0:34.7 | waiting for you all along, find deeper clarity on what's |
| 0:37.7 | unfolding in your beautiful life, deepen your faith in the universe, and learn the tools to |
| 0:42.1 | accelerate your inherent power. So let's get started with this week's big conversation. |
| 0:50.2 | Hello, my friends. Welcome back to big conversations. Ooh, this episode, I'm already cracking up |
| 0:57.5 | of the title of it, how to let go of the how. So we're all about letting go of the how, |
| 1:03.4 | and yet we got to talk about how we do that. So listen, with this episode, it can pertain to so many different things, right? Because we as humans |
| 1:14.0 | want to know how things evolve. Like I think we all have that inherent need for security |
| 1:20.1 | and certainty when it comes to our lives. And yet, something that I want to posit for you |
| 1:25.9 | is that really the mystery tends to be kind of the best |
| 1:30.5 | part. Like, I want you to think about the last time in your life, something happened so unexpectedly, |
| 1:35.2 | like so out of left field, you did not see it coming. And there was a thrill to it. And think about |
| 1:40.9 | like telling friends and family about it or if it was even just like a moment of shock for you |
| 1:46.0 | like think about hearing some news you didn't expect to hear and just that like shock value of that |
| 1:51.8 | moment in a good way of the oh my gosh I did not see this coming like I honestly think that's part of the |
| 1:57.2 | juiciest part of light if like even if you have a friend who texts you and it's like, oh my gosh, you'll never believe what just happened. And there's a shock value. And you're like, |
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