HOW TO LET A GODLY MAN LEAD YOU WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF | WHERE WIVES WAR
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🗓️ 19 February 2026
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Hey Baes! In today’s video, we’re talking about how to let a godly man lead you without losing yourself.This word is for the woman who desires partnership, alignment, and biblical order in her relationship — but wants to understand what submission and leadership look like without self-abandonment.We’re breaking down the difference between healthy leadership and control, what it looks like to remain rooted in your identity while being led, and how God designed partnership to function in balance — not erasure.Grab your journal and let’s get into today’s word.If this word blesses you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!⸻If you feel led to sow A Seed:Cash App: $thechristianbaePaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/TheChristianBaeZelle/Apple Pay: TheChristianBae@gmail.com⸻Things mentioned in today’s video:– Letting a man lead biblically– Leadership vs control– Submission without losing identity– Remaining rooted in self while in partnership– God’s design for relational order⸻Upcoming EventsSoft&Submitted (Feminine Energy Masterclass):https://thechristianbae.com/products/soft-submitted-masterclassWhere Wives War Workshop (In Person)https://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wive-war-workshopWhere Wives War Workshop (Virtual)https://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wives-war-pt-3-replayWhere Wives War Mentoringhttps://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wives-war-1-1-mentorship-application-required⸻♡ F O L L O W M Y S O C I A L S ♡Instagram: https://instagram.com/thechristianbae_?utm_medium=copy_linkTikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRDTxdR2/⸻Business inquiries: TheChristianBae@gmail.comPO Box 670192Coral Springs, FL 33067
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| 0:00.0 | So basically you want a godly man, but you don't know how to let him lead you without losing yourself. |
| 0:22.3 | Let's get into it. Y'all, I'm about to stop doing the intro because y'all know who it is and y'all know where it's at. Welcome back to the Christian Bay TV where Christ and Culture connects. Today we're talking about how to let a godly man lead you without losing yourself. Y'all, this soft and submitted feminine energy error that we end, the girlies is ready. The girlies is ready to become a woman that God can trust a marriage. |
| 0:22.9 | And I'm here. |
| 0:23.9 | Call me to coach. |
| 0:37.6 | I got a clipboard today. Let's get into it. How to let a godly man lead you without losing yourself. I got the clipboard because I want to make sure I give y' all the points, all the notes that God has downloaded into me because the season of Satan tricking my sisters in Christ is over with. okay? This is our where wives war era where the future and the current wives tap into it and become |
| 0:42.5 | the women that God can trust with marriage. |
| 0:44.6 | So today we're talking about how to let a godly man lead you without losing yourself |
| 0:48.8 | because you guys know, I talk about it in every video of mine. |
| 0:51.6 | First of all, everything starts with your relationship with God. That's first, your purpose and your identity. So when it comes to marriage, God does not want you to lose yourself, but God does want you to let your husband lead you. And when I speak to my mentees, I express to them that it's clear that you have a desire to be led by a man of God, but you don't know how to let go of control. |
| 1:11.3 | Because when you have control over something, that is safety, right? |
| 1:14.2 | It is risky trusting somebody to lead you. |
| 1:16.8 | It is risky trusting somebody with your heart. |
| 1:19.1 | It is risky trusting somebody to be here covering so you can want a godly man to lead you. |
| 1:24.8 | But what does that look like? |
| 1:26.1 | How do you become a woman who can be led by a man of God? I know God is using me to create this video because many women of God want that leadership, but they still operate from a place of oversight. You're micromanaging him. You're trying to make sure he does everything right, but then you're saying with your mouth that you trust him to be a leader.'re praying and you're asking God for a husband and a covering but you still want to keep |
| 1:48.0 | control of everything but that ends today so grab your journals let's get into it the first thing |
| 1:52.3 | that i want you to keep in mind when it comes to letting a godly man lead you without losing yourself |
| 1:57.5 | is that leadership requires trust not supervision and. And I'm not saying that you |
| 2:01.5 | should just trust this man overnight and just let anybody lead you. Of course, use discernment. |
| 2:06.6 | Of course, pray and talk to God about it. But I need you to understand that you trying to keep |
| 2:11.1 | control is you trying to make sure you're safe. Be discerning. You need to learn how to trust the |
| 2:17.3 | man that God is calling to lead you, |
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