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How To! | Learn to Love Your City

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🗓️ 25 November 2025

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

It wasn’t long after Melody Warnick moved to Blacksburg, Va., that she realized its nickname—“Bleaksburg”—wasn’t a joke. Feeling stuck, she devised a research-based experiment to acclimate to her new city. On this episode: Melody explains how she went from hating Blacksburg to loving it (and how you can deepen your connection to the place where you live).  Listen to part one of our conversation here: How to Move to a New City.  If you liked this episode check out: How To Survive a Disaster and Quick Fix: Meet Your Neighbors Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you listen. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Sophie Summergrad. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer. Get more of How To! with Slate Plus! Join for exclusive bonus episodes of How To! and ad-free listening on all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe from the How To! show page on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Or, visit slate.com/howtoplus for access wherever you listen. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Why are businesses like HelloVet choosing Apple products and services?

0:05.0

So we started the business two years ago.

0:07.0

We had a few people who were used to PCs and this was their first foray into Macs.

0:12.0

But it's been super smooth getting everyone onto those devices and everyone seems really, really happy.

0:18.0

Find out how Mac can help you run and grow your business at apple.com forward slash

0:23.6

HelloVet.

0:26.8

Sometimes when we land in a place that doesn't immediately feel like a fit, we have to figure out,

0:34.0

how do we put down roots here?

0:36.3

How do we go from, I can't believe I'm living in

0:39.3

Blacksburg, Virginia, to feeling like, oh, this actually is a home and I love it.

0:45.9

Welcome to how to. I'm Courtney Martin. As many of our listeners know, I moved about a year

0:51.2

and a half ago. I only moved about 10 miles away, but it is often

0:54.8

felt like 10,000 miles away. All new neighbors, a new school for my kids, a new rhythm to each day.

1:01.9

Whereas I used to walk my kids to school along dense urban blocks and then maybe grab a coffee

1:06.7

on Telegraph Avenue with a friend, I now have redwood trees, the occasional coyote, and a whole

1:12.5

bunch of strangers surrounding me. I have found it difficult to make new connections.

1:18.0

Neighbors seem more private here, maybe a result of them being more spread out. And I still

1:22.9

haven't found the ideal coffee shop scene, despite a pretty formidable effort. Last week on the show,

1:29.1

we talked with a listener who is aching to do what I just did, move to a new place.

1:34.2

Journalist Melody Warnick helped her think through her options. This week, I'm going to talk

1:39.2

with Melody about what comes next, learning to love a new place. In her book, This is Where You Belong, Finding

1:46.1

Home Wherever You Are, Melody wrote about her own experience moving to Blacksburg, Virginia

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