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U Up?

How to Know You’re Ready to Move In

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2025

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we check in with Jordana’s pregnancy journey and she shares that its going well and how mentally it can feel like a relationship you’re not sure is going to work out. J&J question dating a woman who likes energy drinks in the morning and if it's a red flag? A listener writes in about being ghosted after a first date when she asked for drinks instead of dinner. They read a story about an eight-month connection and ask, ‘What is a situationship?’ They then discuss a listener who is confused by a coworker saying, ‘Let’s start out as friends.' Finally, they share advice on moving in with a partner, with Jared reflecting on his past experience moving in with a past girlfriend! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I like to know everyone's name in the room.

0:02.4

I'm not one of those not know people's name people.

0:05.1

I'm not one of those types of celebrities.

0:10.3

No, I've changed.

0:11.5

I learned.

0:12.5

I'm one of those celebrities who fake gets to know people's name.

0:16.3

Right, Brian?

0:17.5

I mean, Will.

0:23.0

Hello, and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:26.4

And I am Jared Fried. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? How are you feeling? I've been asking you how you've been feeling. And that was my secret way of like, wink, wink, I know you're pregnant.

0:37.7

How are you feeling? Right. How are you feeling in front of all these losers who had no idea of now. Right. Yes. Now that they know, how are you feeling? I'm feeling good. Yeah? Yeah. Have you had like, you know, the pregnancy people like wish for? Have I had the wife? I guess not.

0:52.9

It took you a while.

0:53.7

You know, like, I, this is not.

0:55.3

Like the, like, the pregnancy people, like pregnancy people like are like, I wasn't sick at all. Like some people say they have tough pregnancies. Yeah. No, I think physically it's been pretty, pretty easy. Right. Mentally, it's like obviously a whole other ball game. I would understand. Mentally it's like a, mentally it's like a, like a relationship you're not sure is gonna, like. Oh my God. Are we getting engaged? Are we not getting engaged? Like I feel like on that. That's a pretty dark thing to say. It's true. But it's true, but I'm sure someone out there feels very seen by hearing that. like, you know, and I, that's got to be scary. Like I, I, no, totally. I mean, yeah, that's to me, like, definitely the worst part by far. But it's, um, it's funny, uh, because it's like people will always, like, even people I don't know that they'll be like, how are you feeling? Or like how, like, that's just the question you get all the time yeah and you're kind of like

1:46.0

I'm not going to get into like that so I'm like feeling great like blah blah and so like I kind of

1:50.8

hate that question I've been doing it for six months you know I have no everyone else it's like and

1:55.9

you get it from like everyone you know right and I know like obviously everyone's trying to be like

2:00.2

nice yeah I guess this is why people should listen to the benefits episode, all the uncomfortable question. Yes. Because I guess from my end, which is the most important end of course. In the pregnancy conversation, guy who has nothing to do with the pregnancy. I just, I'm always just like, I want to make sure you're good.

2:51.5

I don't want to like make a big thing. Yeah. But then I end up making a bigger thing than it has to be because I'm like the old guy going, how are you feeling? Like hint, hint. You know what I'm talking about? Like I'm like the worst poker player in the world of that. No, I think you've been, you're been pretty good, yeah. All right, well, listen, sound for benefits if you want unfiltered questions about... Yes, all the questions that you might be thinking, but feel too embarrassed to ask. We think this is interesting because we keep pushing it. I think it's going to be fun because we haven't taped it yet. No, I think it will be too.

2:52.6

I think it's a good space.

2:53.5

Because it's like, here's the thing.

3:05.1

I don't think there's any like, it's out. Yeah. Okay. So yeah, sign up for benefits. It's out right now. I don't think there's offensive questions. I think it's more like there's people who can ask you. it depends on who's asking.

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