How to Know They’ll Cheat on You - Cheating Expert Reveals Warning Signs! - Neil Strauss

The School of Greatness

Lewis Howes

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🗓️ 13 May 2024

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

Today, Lewis sits down with best-selling author Neil Strauss to explore the complex world of relationships, infidelity, and how to spot a manipulator. Strauss opens up about his own journey from infidelity to intimacy rehab, sharing powerful lessons on rebuilding trust and nurturing secure connections. He delves into the psychology behind cheating and the signs that can indicate whether a partner might be unfaithful. Strauss provides a candid look into his most secure and insecure moments in adulthood, discusses the challenges of monogamy, and reveals the keys to a healthy relationship. Drawing from his experience interviewing extreme personalities, he sheds light on persuasion, manipulation, and how to identify red flags in potential partners.

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0:00.0	The reason I'm such an expert on cheating is because well I cheated, got caught, and I remember talking to Rick Riem,
0:06.0	and he was, he's in the books, he's not, he's the minister.
0:08.0	He's like, you did all this for like sex that wasn't that good anyway.
0:12.0	Right, right, right, right.
0:13.0	You know, that wasn't even a great experience,
0:15.0	and like, it wasn't worth it.
0:16.0	Yeah.
0:17.0	And so what's wrong with you and it took a long time
0:19.0	and talking to him to recognize something was broken in me.
0:23.0	Our next guest became the world's greatest pickup artist.
0:27.0	Former New York Times rock critic Neil Strauss,
0:30.0	one of the most renowned and respected pickup artists in the world.
0:34.0	Please say hello to Neil Strauss.
0:36.0	Please welcome.
0:38.0	Well, you know why you've never been in a relationship.
0:41.0	You know why?
0:42.0	And she does, well, because your mom wants to be in a relationship with you.
0:45.0	And then like as soon as she said it, wow. Like logically made no sense. My whole body felt the truth of it.
0:50.0	I felt it like just I'll never I'll literally never that moment
0:54.2	like exact moment changed my life. When people lie they think they're
0:57.9	protecting the person or something but they're not they protect themselves
1:02.0	when feeling uncomfortable emotions from that person.
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