Unlock the Language of CONNECTION: 3 HACKS for Supercommunicators to Build TRUST & INFLUENCE

The School of Greatness

Lewis Howes

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🗓️ 10 May 2024

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Are you ready to transform your communication skills and build deeper, more meaningful relationships? In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis explores the art of communication with three exceptional guests. First, Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter and bestselling author, reveals insights from his new book "Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection," sharing practical tips on how to enhance your communication skills for deeper connections. Next, relationship coach and author Matthew Hussey discusses the secrets to successful relationships, emphasizing the power of authenticity, the importance of giving up superficial attention, and distinguishing between impressing and connecting. Lastly, actress and advocate Jameela Jamil shares her compelling strategies for effective self-expression and advocacy, demonstrating how mastering communication can empower us to speak up for ourselves and inspire others, leading to transformative changes in our personal and communal lives.

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0:00.0	Welcome to this special masterclass. We've brought some of the top experts in the world to help you unlock the power of your life through this specific theme today.
0:10.1	It's going to be powerful, so let's go ahead and dive in.
0:14.0	Not everyone's going to understand you, but I think when you have relationships where people do understand you or see where you're coming from,
0:21.0	it makes you feel safer with them.
0:22.8	Yeah.
0:23.3	Evolution has developed a reward sensation from feeling understood and feeling connected
0:27.8	because that's what helped our species survive, right? The early ancestors who said like I want to take care of my young because I feel a bond to them or I want to pair off with this community and invest in this community, they're the ones who made it.
0:46.0	Right. And so we have this inborn need and desire and sense of reward when we feel understood. That being said if I'm saying
0:55.8	something even if you're listening closely I might not pick up on it unless you tell me.
1:00.7	Repeat it back in your words and say that I get this right.
1:04.0	Yeah or and that's kind of formal like it can be more casual like it is with Matt which is to say like I hear what you're saying like that's
1:10.4	so interesting it reminds me of this thing. Like to show that I'm hearing you, which you're very good at.
1:16.5	Like you, I've watched a show it over times like you, you do this almost automatically.
1:20.8	Yeah, yeah, practicing.
1:22.3	What's also like, you know, we were talking off camera a little bit about how if you, I mean I speak for myself,
1:27.9	I grew up feeling like I didn't have any threats, right?
1:30.9	That was the feeling, whether that was hundred percent true or if it was the
1:34.8	story I was telling myself it just felt like I didn't have friends for a long time until I was
1:39.0	like 14 and I started to get more athletically like confident and have like skills and you know
1:45.2	had value to teams like then I started to feel like I had friends.
1:49.6	It was almost like because I didn't have this, I wanted to find any way to feel like, okay, what's
1:56.3	it going to take for this person to connect with me?
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