My first orgasm was from a vibrator. I had had sex with four to five people at that time never had an orgasm

bought a water dancer from Vibertex no longer made.

Kind of like a pocket rocket gave me my first orgasm I squirt it to and I was like what is this but I kind of already know what it is and so for a while that was like a big part of my life that imprinting and the people that were pressuring about not needing, you shouldn't need this,

didn't help me learn how to have orgasms the other way.

That created pressure in my brain and headiness

and having partners that were like,

yeah, bring it out, that's great.

Helps me to actually open up to be able to have orgasms in other ways.

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