The word submission means sub and mission, okay?

You must have a mission for your life

if you want someone to submit and help you with it.

Come on somebody.

If you have a problem with your wife respecting you and honoring you and

getting behind you and all these things, I'll ask you what's your mission? Why would

somebody follow you?

Professor Jabin talked about seeds and that we are gardens.

And I believe one of the things that God has created to be a garden

and that the fruit of that garden would be a representation of his glory is the picture idea and context of marriage.

That a godly family, a husband and wife, and how they do marriage God's way and how long have you guys been

married so far? Ten years. Let's go. I got you up on 11. Yeah, let's be 11.

I'm just saying, yeah, let's 5 it up, pay you.

For once I won up Ryan, let's go.

If really quickly I would like for you guys to talk about what is marriage God's way?

I would say, you know, this has been a learning process over the last almost 11 years,

but I think it starts out as getting to know each other

and just really loving who know who they are and then at least for me I've learned the

last I'd say five years or so that it's actually not about me. Marriage is not about me.

It's about serving my spouse.

And it's not about doing it because, you know,

I just want to like check the box or I want to like have a tally of you know I've done all these things it's

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