How to Have a GOOD Sex Life (According to the Bible)

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 4.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2025

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Is your perspective on sex hurting your marriage? In this episode, Ryan and Selena tackle the often misunderstood topic of intimacy in the Christian life. We break down the 5 biblical keys to a healthy perspective on sex.RESOURCES:Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

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0:00.0	Pornography is no-go. Even if you both think it's fine, we're telling you it's not fine.
0:04.1	It's objectively not fine to bring that into your life.
0:07.3	Sometimes I think our perspectives are skewed, which skews our expectations.
0:11.3	They're either ill-informed, misguided, and then we're all frustrated.
0:14.2	We're not enjoying our marital rights and blessings to their fullest when we are not having the right perspective.
0:22.4	Fire is great when it's in the hearth.
0:24.5	But as soon as that thing starts creeping up the walls, you're doomed.
0:28.3	Your house is going to burn down, keeping in its proper place and its proper context.
0:32.3	I think it is important to make sure we're founding ourselves in scripture, like you said, about sex is pure. It's saved for the marriage bed. There is a fruitfulness to it. Our perspective has to be founded in God. God is glorified when we do that for the right reasons and the right context. So how do you find your path back to this well? If you listen to this and you realize, man, our perspective has gotten a little skewed. We don't really see sex this way. How do you get back to that?
1:04.0	Selena, it is that time of year. It's cold. The forge is cold. It's very wet and cold. It's wet and cold and it's December, so I'm wearing my, I'm in full lumberjack mode right now. Full lumberjack mode. It's right. If you can't see this, if you're listening, you should check out the YouTube channel, but yeah, I'm wearing a red flannel right now and I feel like a lumberjack. And I don't
1:29.2	hate it. I don't hate it. So anyway, it's that time of year. It's cold. So you need to have some
1:34.1	activities for how to stay warm. Oh, look at that. Look at that. So today we're going to tackle the
1:39.7	five keys to a healthy perspective on you guessed it.
1:45.9	Sex.
1:47.4	But first,
1:48.3	if you don't know who we are,
1:49.5	welcome to the Fierce Marriage podcast.
1:51.0	My name is Ryan Frederick.
1:52.2	This is my current wife,
1:53.8	Selena.
1:54.4	She's just wonderful.
1:56.3	Every time.
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