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How To Handle the Parts of Yourself That You Wish Didn't Exist | Satya Doyle Byock

10% Happier with Dan Harris

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Dan Harris, Health & Fitness, Mindfulness, Dharma, Mental Health, Meditation

4.612.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 October 2025

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

How to do "shadow work," interpret your dreams, and find your "self."

Satya Doyle Byock is a psychotherapist and educator focused on the relationship with the unconscious. She is the director of The Salome Institute of Jungian Studies and the author of the book Quarterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood. She writes weekly and hosts regular workshops on her Substack, Self & Society

In this episode we talk about:

  • The vast impact of Carl Jung's work
  • What separates Freud and Jung
  • The connection between Jung's ideas and Buddhism
  • Practical exercises to help us resolve the tension between safety and meaning – between stability and taking a walk on the wild side
  • Dreamwork: what it is, why we should do it, and the "how to"
  • The perks of making the unconscious feel seen 

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0:00.0

This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:18.5

Hello, everybody. How we doing?

0:50.4

In the many years of hosting this show and of just generally being attuned to all things, psychological and contemplative, over these many years, I have often heard talk of the shadow side or shadow work. But I have to admit, I didn't actually know what it meant. I knew the concept of the shadow was derived from the writings of the pioneering German psychotherapist Carl Jung, who died back in 1961. But I have to further admit that I never really knew much about who Young was and what he stood for.

0:55.9

Turns out, Young was not only the progenitor of the concept of the shadow, but also terms such as dream work, wholeness, synchronicity, and the collective unconscious, terms

1:01.8

many, if not most of us, have heard before. So today we're going to learn much more about Young

1:07.4

and all of these terms, and crucially, we're going to learn how to use all of

1:11.1

these concepts to do life better. I especially liked this one. Sotia Doyle Bayak is a psychotherapist

1:19.5

and educator focused on our relationship with our unconscious. She's the director of the Salomey Institute

1:26.2

of Jungian Studies. She's also the author of a book called Quarter Life, and she has a popular substack. I'll put a link to that in the show notes. In this conversation, we talk about the vast impact of Carl Jung's work, what separates Freud and Young, the connection between Jung's ideas and Buddhism, practical

1:45.9

exercises to help you resolve the tension between your desire for safety and your desire

1:50.3

for meaning. In other words, between stability and taking a walk on the wild side. We talk

1:55.3

about dream work, what it is, why we should do it, and how to do it it and the perks of making the unconscious feel seen

2:03.7

plus how to actually make the unconscious feel seen there's a lot here just to say if you've

2:09.6

ever struggled with the balance between being safe and responsible on the one hand and on the

2:13.9

other hand taking risks and aiming high we've got a custom guided meditation that comes with this podcast.

2:19.8

It was made by our teacher of the month, Sabine Selassi,

2:22.6

who's crafting bespoke meditations for all of our Monday, Wednesday episodes this month.

2:27.3

Those meditations are only available to paying subscribers over on Dan Harris.com.

2:32.0

Subscribers also get weekly meditation and q and a sessions which we do live

2:36.9

on video every tuesday at four eastern the next one is tomorrow the 14th it'll be me and

2:42.1

said together sign up join the party and if you want to meditate with me in person i am co-leading

2:49.3

a weekend retreat very soon october 24th through 26th at the Omega

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