All right, men, welcome to the man talk show. I'm Connor Beaton. And today we're going to talk about

how you can deal with rejection from women. All right. So I get this question all the time. How do I

deal with rejection from a woman? I'm terrified of being rejected. I don't know how to approach.

I don't know how to ask for her number. You know, all sorts of questions. What do I say when I'm on Tinder? Like, it's just every number of questions. And the main one is how do I deal with a rejection? And I think what's interesting is that the question itself, how do I deal with or how do I avoid the rejection from a woman, presupposes

that your value as a man is somehow attached to her yes. Your value as a man is somehow attached

to her agreeing to what you're saying or wanting or wanting to engage with. And there's something

that you need from her, right? So for most men, they're terrified to go and get a number or ask a woman

out or just engage in a conversation because they're scared of being rejectable. Why? Why are you

afraid of getting rejected in the first place? What does that rejection actually mean? Well, for most

men, it means that their value, their worth is somehow less than, that they're somehow not good enough

because a woman has said no. So the first step is that

you need to separate your value as a man from her yes. Her no and your value, her rejection and

your value are two entirely separate things. Notice that for you as a man, your desire to have her confirmation that you are good

enough, that you're smart enough, strong enough, good looking enough, sexual enough, you know,

good enough to get her phone number or have a conversation or whatever it is, is an affirmation

of whether you as a man are valuable that you have worth. And so in that dynamic,

the question itself is an indicator that your value and your worth as a man has been put into

the hands of women, just collectively. Right. So every time you think about going to approach a woman, every time you think about

going to talk to a woman in a coffee shop or ask for her phone number or hit her up on a dating app,

you are already outsourcing your worth and your value to her. So you're already disempowering

yourself in that moment. So the first thing that you need to do is you need to build your value as a man

because knowing your value as a man ensures that you won't look to the comfort of women to confirm

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