Love your neighbor.

Well, I love myself enough to be in spaces.

That when I'm in those spaces, they welcome me.

They celebrate me.

They lift me up.

They're not looking for opportunities to bring me down.

They're not looking for opportunities to tell me where they feel like I've made mistakes,

where they feel like I'm not doing.

So my question for you is, have you asked yourself, if you are a guest, do I even want to go?

And if the answer is all I don't want to, but if I don't, they're going to be mad at me.

My question is, are you loving yourself?

I told myself, I am too old.

I'm fully grown.

And more than that, I am fully secure in my identity.

I know for sure the people who I want to surround me at my own table.

I know for sure the tables that I want to surround myself with.

If you're not sure about that, you will subject yourself to spaces that make you feel

worse when you left than when you came all in the name of they don't mean any harm.

All in the name of, I can be the bigger person. All in the name of

is holidays. Holidays are for family. So if you're watching this, I would never be the one to say,

if you don't like your family, don't go. What I will be the one to tell you

is ask yourself, do you want to go? The honest, honesty from yourself. And if you say no,

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