How to get someone to really trust and believe in you

Sports Motivation Podcast

Niyi Sobo

Soccer, Football, Basketball, Crossfit, Mindset, Sports, Psychology, Dominate, Business

4.8 • 755 Ratings

🗓️ 6 July 2018

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

How do you get a loved one, friend or teammate to really buy into your vision and believe in you? In my experience, there are things that really don't work, and some things that build trust like no other. In this episode, I break down how I've been able to gain the trust of my wife (for now at least lol)

Time Stamps:

(1:22) What we say is “best”, right?

(2:23) The trust factor in my relationship with my wife

(5:21) An analogy: Football 2-a-days TRUST IS A MUSCLE

(8:25) Tip #1: Know your goals and your dreams.

(8:48) Tip #2: Work from a PLAN.

(9:38) Tip #3: Don’t sweat mistakes!

(10:51) Tip #4: Doubt is a good thing.

(11:43) Tip #5: Share your wins and losses with your significant other.

(12:21) Tip #6: Act like you’ve won before.. (don’t sweat them either)

(13:01) POEM: “If” by Rudyard Kipling

(13:40) Tip #7: Think about those that you are serving; do for them, what is BEST for them!

(14:49) Tip #8: Don’t lie.

(15:33) Focus on yourself. Think about others. Be truthful. Be honest.

Transcript

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0:00.0	If you try to get right, then you listen to my dad.
0:03.0	He's a beast.
0:05.0	And if you don't want to listen to him, okay, okay, you don't want to get successful.
0:11.0	If you ain't trying to dominate, man, they go listen to something else.
0:15.0	Welcome, athletes, top performers, and all those looking to gain that killer instinct, that edge you need
0:22.4	to dominate in any environment. This is the Sports Motivation podcast, and I'm your host,
0:28.1	Nees Showbo. I play ball and succeeded at the highest levels, and I'm now committed to showing
0:34.3	you how you can accomplish the ambitious goals and visions that you have.
0:39.3	This podcast is designed to teach you a high-level strategy, not just fluff and hype.
0:44.7	This will cut to the core if you let it. And by taking action on the practical and next-level
0:50.1	advice I share, you will see results. Expect that.
0:55.5	Expect to be more confident.
0:57.2	Expect to be more focused.
0:59.1	Expect to be more decisive.
1:01.1	And expect to be more fearless.
1:04.9	Expect to become the leader your vision needs you to become.
1:06.3	So listen up.
1:07.1	Take notes.
1:08.7	Let's get to it.
1:27.3	Welcome to the sports motivation podcast. This is your host, Nees Showbo. I can imagine you have dreams and goals and you got people that you love, right?
1:30.3	So none of us are on this journey alone.
1:33.3	We have people that we hope, trust, and believe in us, whether that's our moms and dads,
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